What is it about my friend that attracts men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If men walk into things staring it means her body is really shaped in the most sexual way. The face alone doesn't cause that kind of reaction. Men are picturing her naked.

Yep. I have a friend who's shaped like Jessica Rabbit. She wears minimal makeup and is always dressed super casually. Last week, a guy tripped while carrying a tray of coffees because he was staring at her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a high-earning, attractive, fit woman in my late 20s. My friend is in her mid 20s but could pass for early 20s. She's a nanny and she's attractive in a plain way and also very fit/ petite. She has NO trouble getting dates. I don't understand it. She's plain looking. She doesn't wear makeup most days. Her job pays around 20-30k per year. I think it may be her personality. She's shy, sweet but very funny once you get to know her. I catch men checking her out constantly. She doesn't dress flashy. Her last boyfriend looked like an European model. He was beautiful and they were together for a 5 years! She has always been able to attract men I find attractive.

There is a simple answer to this. You have no idea what men like, and it is clear that your friend is it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's the energy. I have some friends who I consider to be very unattractive and they always have a handsome successful guy. I have friends who are gorgeous who can't buy a date. It's their energy.

I have lots of divorced friends who've really struggled to find guys. I found an amazing guy a month after my divorce. People always mention my energy.

+1
This is really what it all comes down to.

[Anonymous]

She's hot if guys are running into things. That's not normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My guess is she's not actually plain - she probably has some kind of features or overall impact that is very striking, but you don't see.

That's it. Some people are just magnetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is a nice person and it shows. Nothing else is needed. The real question you are asking is, why are you not as attractive to men. You know this answer, we don't.

This.

[Anonymous]

Being too attractive works against you sometimes. Guys shoot for the middle of the road.

[Anonymous]

NP here. I understand. I have a friend who describes herself as the “ ugly duckling”. She’s not the hottest, but most men describe her as “ cute girl next door”. She is 28 and still looks early 20’s, nice blue eyes ( but small), and a cute smile. She has an incredible petite body at 5’1. I think men stare Nabataeans she’s so tiny with c cup boobs, a flat stomach, and a nice big butt. I’m of equal attractiveness, but without the body. I don’t get nearly as much attention.

[Anonymous]

I am a high-earning, attractive, fit woman in my late 20s

What does high-earning have to do with success at dating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I am a high-earning, attractive, fit woman in my late 20s

What does high-earning have to do with success at dating?

Nothing at all, but half the women on this site can't seem to get that through their heads

[Anonymous]

Is she petite op? What is her body type?

[Anonymous]

Guy here - I haven't read all of this but based on OP's comment:
1. She sounds very approachable - attractive but not over a guys head.
2. If she's a good nanny, it means she's nice and calm - which is rare.
3. The unknown are her bedroom skills and I bet they are very good.

[Anonymous]

I’m like your friend. I’m rather plain looking or ugly, but I attract many guys. I’m 28 but people often mistake me for 21-25. I think most men like me because I’m just over 5’1, with 32c boobs, and a firm bubble butt. I’m very approachable, often nice and kind to everyone. I’m also a huge freak in bed. Most
“ average” looking women are low key freaks in bed.

[Anonymous]

OP, if you are truly good looking, then what’s happening is either:

1) you’re too “done up”
Or
2) your personality makes you uglier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am a high-earning, attractive, fit woman in my late 20s

What does high-earning have to do with success at dating?

Nothing at all, but half the women on this site can't seem to get that through their heads

This is a classic mistake made by both sexes. A guy that figures he would love a woman to text him a nude pic figures a woman would love a nude pic of him.... Wrong. A woman who wants a high earning man figures the man is interested in her career and income... Wrong.