How Many People Do You Think it is OK to Sleep With?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Depending on what your definition of sex is, I don't see how more than three at a time is physically possible.

You’re forgetting the hands, so it’s actually 5.

[Anonymous]

I'd probably stick to one at a time. God forbid you accidentally end up pregnant and have to figure out whose it is! But over a lifetime? Totally your call.

[Anonymous]

I'm single again in my 40s and have had as many as three overlapping, which makes up for the years of my marriage when it was mostly zero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are just sleeping around it does not matter.

If you want a relationship one at a time.

If you have a FWB you will not really be looking and you are obviously settling for less. It's not good to settle for less, you get comfortable with less.


I don't think I am explaining it well but if you really want to find a life partner it's not good to have a side piece.

Not true. Having a FWB actually helped me when dating. Kept me from getting serious with men who weren't great fits just to have companionship. I'd see FWB once a month and date other guys the rest of the time. Only slept with one guy at a time (stopped see FWB when having sex in a relationship). Totally took the pressure off of finding a guy to date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Depending on what your definition of sex is, I don't see how more than three at a time is physically possible.

You’re forgetting the hands, so it’s actually 5.

I caveated with depending on your definition is. After high school do handys count?