How Many People Do You Think it is OK to Sleep With?
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Anonymous
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One thing to keep in mind: if you're in a place like DC, where single women greatly outnumber single men, then I can guarantee that any dude you're "casually seeing" will also be sleeping with at least two or three other women.
I run in a circle of attractive guys with well compensated jobs in their early and mid 30s. The single guys are always 3, 4, or 5 women at once. So just realize that if you want to be "casual," you will most likely be one of many women on his date card. |
Anonymous
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o (zero) if you want to prevent STDs and infertility issues that come from STDs. Condoms do not protect 100% and wherever there is exchange of any bodily fluids on any mucous tissues there is also an exchange of bacteria and viruses.
If sexual health was treated the same way as diabetes, heart disease, or cancer there would be less topics like this posted on the forum. But I think that the majority really is not fully cognizant to what it means to exchange bodily fluids. It's just not scary enough. Yet. All the best, what ever you decide. |
Anonymous
Personally I would not sleep with more than one person at a time. If you do more, you must make sure all partners are on board with it as PP states above. Otherwise, you are a sh*thead, not only for the STD angle but also from the emotional angle. |
Anonymous
| At once or one at a time? |
Anonymous
If a new partner told me they slept with 71 or more people, I would question their judgement. Anything up to 70 is ok.
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Anonymous
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Look it really depends what you are looking for. If its literally just sex with little effort, there are sex clubs. If it’s one night stands, you can find that. If it’s FWB or a go nowhere relationship, it’s also easy to find. All of these are options if you are really don’t won’t to get emotionally involved with anyone. But once you talk about going on dates, having a relationship with two or more people and sex being part of all those relationships, it can get real messy fast. What if you do realize as you get to know the person that this IS someone you want to date and now you have to hurt the other people that you cut loose and you risk hurting the person you want to date exclusively if the realize your strong feeling for hiim or her doesn’t stop you for still sleeping with 2 or more other people.
So at most, I would say two non-exclusive relationships that include sex and I see that as being more of an overlap than intentionally doing so, but that’s me. |
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| 5. |
Anonymous
And likewise, a man should realize he may just be one in a woman’s hotation. |
Anonymous
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Not sure but I say as long as you're being safe and use birth control.
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Anonymous
Mostly. But I have some threesomes I'd really be into  .
Sleep with all the people you want to sleep with and who want to sleep with you, and none of the people you don't. |
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Anonymous
| My number is over 400 women and I’m only 38 years old. Still time to get over the 500 mark. |
Anonymous
| At the same time? No more than two can fit in my bed. I guess I need a king! |
Anonymous
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I think the only possible down side is that if you decide one of the number is the right guy that you may lose them when you come clean or may get caught after the fact. Most guys who are really interested in you are not really thinking that you are sleeping with other guys if you are sleeping with them, and if/when they find out they may decide you are not the right one for them. But as long as you are willing to risk that then I say the limit is how many you can juggle.
Have some fun, cut loose and then when you are ready to get back into the serious dating for a LTR cut back to one guy at a time. |