How Many People Do You Think it is OK to Sleep With?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I genuinely don't care how many men a woman has slept with at any point through her life- as long as she is STD free.


I do care. Someone who sleeps around, or sleeps with low-class people, is a woman I don't want in my life.
Anonymous
I am continually astounded at the questions people ask on this site.
You are relying on groupthink to make a very personal decision that could have long term consequences.
Frankly, I don’t think you are ready to sleep with anyone.
Anonymous
I would only sleep with one person at a time. But that's me. Good luck deciding what's right for you.
Anonymous
Based on experience 3 was my max. I often had 2 men but occasionally 3 and I found it can start to get confusing. You don't want to mix up names, dates, experiences if you actually like some of the men. Good luck and of course have fun!
Anonymous
I have slept with up to 3 at once but often had 2. So no need to stick with just 1, just be sure you don't get emotionally attached to all!
Anonymous
Unless you've agreed to be exclusive, you can do whatever you want. I guarantee any of those men, if given the chance, would sleep with other women.
Anonymous
I think the number should be whatever you are comfortable with. Personally, I couldn't imagine more than 2 at the same time unless I knew the 3rd was going to be a one and done.

The problem with planning one and dones? What if the sex changes how you feel?
Anonymous
7.5, no more, no less.
Anonymous
Sleeping with three men at once is promiscuous. It’s behavior like that that’s may contribute to a so-called rape culture on some campuses.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:7.5, no more, no less.


Lol
Anonymous
"If you are just sleeping around it does not matter.

If you want a relationship one at a time.

If you have a FWB you will not really be looking and you are obviously settling for less. It's not good to settle for less, you get comfortable with less."

- Excellent points IMO

Good luck OP!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Personally I only sleep with one person at a time and I do not sleep with anyone unless we are in an exclusive relationship

Two or three AT the same time is fun.
Anonymous
Depending on what your definition of sex is, I don't see how more than three at a time is physically possible.
Anonymous
As many as you can so long as there is no way any of them will find out about the other. Personally, I could only manage 2.
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