The best guys are taken super early ladies!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:so he's a wealth advisor at the ripe age of 25...hmmm, how much as he invested and how much has he made in the market? or does he just peddle the crap that the real analysts, who are much higher up in the firm, produce? he's a snake oil salesman.

he is not making anything remotely close to "big bucks". It's perhaps not that shocking that you're stupid enough to buy into his BS.

oh, by the way, with a new born at home, what's he doing at a happy hour?

yours truly,
very happily married 45 y.o. dad of 3 with a net worth of ~5 million

I see no evidence that he is a good catch. Seems like the frat boy who exudes confidence....but really has no skills. He is selling investment products. There is no way to go up in that field. The really good people in financial services start as analysts...They are the ones that develop the models and are the ones making the big bucks.

People that go barhopping with newborns at home are players.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was at a HH with my 25 year old brother and his friends the other night. I met a friend of his that kind of shook me to my core. In regards to dating anyway!

This friend 25 years old, very good looking and carries himself with an easy confidence of a 32 year old. He makes eye contact and speaks with the kind of confidence and self assuredness that that many of my 30somethibg male peers lack! I learnt that he was already married for a few years and had a new born at home. He is also a wealth advisor.

As I walked home I was impressed with whoever his wife was and how she managed find,marry him and make him her baby daddy all before age 25!

Guys in their 20s who are that full of confidence are usually full of shit. They think they know everything, and they are so, so wrong.

Nothing about this guy sounds all that impressive. And you have no idea if he is a good husband or father, if he's faithful, if he's ever dealt with any kind of adversity. You don't know if he works hard, or if he got his job because his family is wealthy and connected but he's never really had to do anything on his own merits. He's good-looking and full of himself, and he got married right out of college. If he's your idea of "the best guy," then i feel sorry for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was at a HH with my 25 year old brother and his friends the other night. I met a friend of his that kind of shook me to my core. In regards to dating anyway!

This friend 25 years old, very good looking and carries himself with an easy confidence of a 32 year old. He makes eye contact and speaks with the kind of confidence and self assuredness that that many of my 30somethibg male peers lack! I learnt that he was already married for a few years and had a new born at home. He is also a wealth advisor.

As I walked home I was impressed with whoever his wife was and how she managed find,marry him and make him her baby daddy all before age 25!

LOL
Young and immature you sound. You didn't know a thing about them or their problems.

And you sound like Yoda!

[Anonymous]

New born at home, out at HH. He sucks

[Anonymous]

This was a good read.

[Anonymous]

Agree that several friends whose daughters married in their 20s got the cream of the crop. Some of the ones who've waited until their mid 30s seem to be "settling."

Desirable mates who want families are often looking for women in their prime childbearing years (20s).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agree that several friends whose daughters married in their 20s got the cream of the crop. Some of the ones who've waited until their mid 30s seem to be "settling."

Desirable mates who want families are often looking for women in their prime childbearing years (20s).

And they are miserable and cheating by 40....

[Anonymous]

Well, none of my friends who got married at 23-24 right out of college seem happy. You're SO different after just a few years. I, for one, am thrilled I didn't get married that early. I had no idea what I wanted long-term and no time to be young and free out in the world. I'm sure it works for some, but just my two cents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When my grandfather was 25 he'd already fought for almost 4 years in World War 2, and then gotten an engineering degree. He'd been married since 19, had three children, and was buying a house.

My grandmother too. He used to beat her up.

You're a liar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When my grandfather was 25 he'd already fought for almost 4 years in World War 2, and then gotten an engineering degree. He'd been married since 19, had three children, and was buying a house.

And the average lifespan was what 65?

The average lifespan on a B-17 was 19 missions.

[Anonymous]

I wasn't 25, but by 29 I had a wife, a house, two cars, a dog, and a PhD. Did it without any family money. At the time I felt like a slacker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agree that several friends whose daughters married in their 20s got the cream of the crop. Some of the ones who've waited until their mid 30s seem to be "settling."

Desirable mates who want families are often looking for women in their prime childbearing years (20s).

And they are miserable and cheating by 40....

Yep

[Anonymous]

My experience is the the people that peak early marry early/pair off early.

In general, the people that exude confidence early are people whose primary skill is exuding confidence. AKA BS. In the 20's they tend to gravitate to jobs where skills do not grow over time (mostly sales). A good salesman can make a lot of money quickly. But, they can flame out just as quickly.

On the other hand, the people who are nerdier (for lack of a better word), well, they spend there live increasing the value. Sure, they might not make you weak in the knees at 25, but at 40, they are working hard, making good money, coming home at night, and coaching the kids in soccer.

-- a 50 yo nerd, former soccer and softball coach earning 250K.

[Anonymous]

I think the ideal guys are the never married between the ages of 26-32. They've gotten their careers going, sowed their wild outs and are beginning to really think about their futures.

[Anonymous]

The title of this thread is just gross.