30s female: How can I be hot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Im not blone, I'm Persian and havr no problemd attracting unwanted attention with my long, thick datk brown hair. Oh and I'm not thin, I have big boobs and a big butt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Im not blone, I'm Persian and havr no problemd attracting unwanted attention with my long, thick datk brown hair. Oh and I'm not thin, I have big boobs and a big butt.

Real blond is always better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Im not blone, I'm Persian and havr no problemd attracting unwanted attention with my long, thick datk brown hair. Oh and I'm not thin, I have big boobs and a big butt.

Real blond is always better.

I will take a brunette over a fake blonde 99 out of 100 times.

[Anonymous]

Are people who say you can;t be hot at 30+ blind??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are people who say you can;t be hot at 30+ blind??

I don't think the issue is whether or not 30+ can be hot. It's that being hot in your 30s takes more work than in your 20s. The women you posted are attractive, but also well-dressed with makeup and hair done. If they were in sweatpants and a ponytail they would be unremarkable. Meanwhile, college girls can look like a bum and still get male attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are people who say you can;t be hot at 30+ blind??

Post pictures of a hot 25 year old right next to those. You will see a huge difference

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Im not blone, I'm Persian and havr no problemd attracting unwanted attention with my long, thick datk brown hair. Oh and I'm not thin, I have big boobs and a big butt.

Real blond is always better.

I will take a brunette over a fake blonde 99 out of 100 times.

Exactly.

[Young40]

This post is ridiculous. I'm 44 and fully consider myself to be hot. I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way. Age is a number and some women look better as they get older and more confident.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:2 words. Thigh gap

+1. OP, do you have a thigh gap now? If not, is there room to lose some weight so one might appear?

[Anonymous]

Young40 wrote: I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way.

Thank you. From men everywhere.

[Anonymous]

In her twenties

vs now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:


In her twenties

vs now

Are you implying she's chopped liver now? I am not sure what point you are trying to make. Sure, she looked fuller in the face and more luscious perhaps in her 20's but she still looks quite beautiful? But what do I know, I'm a straight woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:


In her twenties

vs now

Are you implying she's chopped liver now? I am not sure what point you are trying to make. Sure, she looked fuller in the face and more luscious perhaps in her 20's but she still looks quite beautiful? But what do I know, I'm a straight woman.

This is pp. I was showing the same woman in her twenties vs thirties. I don't see a big difference. She still seems to have a banging body but her face looks fuller in her twenties. Does that make her not hot?

[Young40]

Anonymous wrote:

Young40 wrote: I do have thigh gap and work hard to keep it that way.

Thank you. From men everywhere.

Haha thanks! But it's not about you. It's about me! I want to be hot because it makes me feel good. And if it attracts a few men, well then all the better!

[Anonymous]

I'll be 45 in June, and I get hit on every time I go out in public. I ignore them and so does my husband. Just go on and do your thing. Getting hit on is not a big deal.