30s female: How can I be hot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In DC all you have to do is dye your hair blonde.

Ha, so true! And more damaged the hair, the better! Definitely don't go for radiant brunette! Country club membership for brunettes? Denied.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like 10 top ways to be a slut. Or how to catch a raging STD!

If you had more self worth, a better personalty you wouldn't obsess about being "hot". Which by the way sounds like someone who is regressed. Sounds like a personality problem to me.

Being hit on by losers isn't anything to brag about...lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The world would be such a better place if the men concentrated on providing as much value to the economy as possible (read: $$$$) and women concentrated on remaining fit and nurturing.

LOL hi Donald!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In DC all you have to do is dye your hair blonde.

Ha, so true! And more damaged the hair, the better! Definitely don't go for radiant brunette! Country club membership for brunettes? Denied.

Wear a trendy trench coat and high heels. They'll take you for an escort.

You'll probably get some get $$ out of the deal too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The world would be such a better place if the men concentrated on providing as much value to the economy as possible (read: $$$$) and women concentrated on remaining fit and nurturing.

LOL hi Donald!

Women who have large insurance policies on their husbands who feed them meals like Chuck Wagon Casserole.

And it's legal!

[Anonymous]

Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Sorry to derail, but you have to be blonde to be hot?

[Anonymous]

OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Sorry to derail, but you have to be blonde to be hot?

NP. If the number of white women with fake blonde hair is any indication , then the answer apparently is YES

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Sorry to derail, but you have to be blonde to be hot?

Clearly I thought so when I wrote it. But I'll make that one optional. But it will make you hotter. It is scientifically proven. NO, I don't citations.

[Anonymous]

Time machine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

If your goal is to attract the white males only, then yes follow these steps. For all other races ignore the advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Sorry to derail, but you have to be blonde to be hot?

Clearly I thought so when I wrote it. But I'll make that one optional. But it will make you hotter. It is scientifically proven. NO, I don't citations.

I was blonde in my early 20's but men went the craziest over me as a brunette (albeit light brown) in my late 20's. Maybe choose what flatters your skin tone the most?

[Anonymous]

Just give up...doughnuts taste great!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

Eat healthy and workout more - simple really