30s female: How can I be hot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So someone is hot at 29 but not hot at 30? Great logic there. Not.

×100. Not much difference in looks between late twenties/early thirties.

[Anonymous]

So he cheated or you are worried he'll cheat?

[Anonymous]

Hang out with people in their 50's

[Anonymous]

I am 30 and am completely invisible!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have very low body fat (be fit). I'm not going to use the word skinny or thin because there are all sorts of connotations around that. But honestly, you will stand out for being very fit. Only 1/10 women in their 30s who are single are super fit. So, even if your face is only a 6/7 if you have a smokin body you'll be at the top. Same for guys. Working out and having broad shoulders and no belly puts you in a small group.

This is it right here.
Stop the thread now, the topic is now closed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Man here, this is a great list.

Sorry for all the loser men trashing 30s women. There are plenty of 30-somethings and older that look beautiful and hot! The key is to rock your age, not try to look 18.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

Being very fit/slim w/hourglass figure, big boobs, with a pretty face is hot apparently. I am in my 50ties (happily married w/kids) and get hit on all the time by men, all races, in their 20ties to 70ties. Not blond either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait until you are 36 and those eggs start to dry up - you will have sex with anyone to have kids.

Like 90 percent of women posters here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

Being very fit/slim w/hourglass figure, big boobs, with a pretty face is hot apparently. I am in my 50ties (happily married w/kids) and get hit on all the time by men, all races, in their 20ties to 70ties. Not blond either.

Fiftyties?

Twentyties?

Seventyties?

Sorry, I just can't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

Being very fit/slim w/hourglass figure, big boobs, with a pretty face is hot apparently. I am in my 50ties (happily married w/kids) and get hit on all the time by men, all races, in their 20ties to 70ties. Not blond either.

Fiftyties?

Twentyties?

Seventyties?

Sorry, I just can't.

A guy, in his twenties, wanted my # when I stopped to buy gas.

The guy in his seventies I saw in the park. I've seen him before and this time he wanted me to walk with him. Nice man but too slow, I run.

That was just this week.

I wouldn't with you either: I'm married.

I am a "goddess" according to the guys I meet at my kid's activities and ageless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

Being very fit/slim w/hourglass figure, big boobs, with a pretty face is hot apparently. I am in my 50ties (happily married w/kids) and get hit on all the time by men, all races, in their 20ties to 70ties. Not blond either.

Fiftyties?

Twentyties?

Seventyties?

Sorry, I just can't.

A guy, in his twenties, wanted my # when I stopped to buy gas.

The guy in his seventies I saw in the park. I've seen him before and this time he wanted me to walk with him. Nice man but too slow, I run.

That was just this week.

I wouldn't with you either: I'm married.

I am a "goddess" according to the guys I meet at my kid's activities and ageless.

Sure you are))))

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have very low body fat (be fit). I'm not going to use the word skinny or thin because there are all sorts of connotations around that. But honestly, you will stand out for being very fit. Only 1/10 women in their 30s who are single are super fit. So, even if your face is only a 6/7 if you have a smokin body you'll be at the top. Same for guys. Working out and having broad shoulders and no belly puts you in a small group.

Ugly face with a hot body, still makes you ugly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Wow, this caused quite a stir I'm married with a kid, so not looking to find a partner. I would just like to look better for reasons I won't get into here.

Thank you to those who replied with actual advice!

Being very fit/slim w/hourglass figure, big boobs, with a pretty face is hot apparently. I am in my 50ties (happily married w/kids) and get hit on all the time by men, all races, in their 20ties to 70ties. Not blond either.

Fiftyties?

Twentyties?

Seventyties?

Sorry, I just can't.

A guy, in his twenties, wanted my # when I stopped to buy gas.

The guy in his seventies I saw in the park. I've seen him before and this time he wanted me to walk with him. Nice man but too slow, I run.

That was just this week.

I wouldn't with you either: I'm married.

I am a "goddess" according to the guys I meet at my kid's activities and ageless.

Sure you are))))

Still nice of them to say... since I am the same age as their moms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I'm not going to say your post isn't concerning; it is. But I get where you are coming from.

1) Be thin.
2) Be fit.
3) Long and clean hair
4) Blond.
5) Wear make up. Not so much, but enough.
6) Good skin.
7) CONFIDENCE. SENSE OF HUMOR. PLEASANT DEMEANOR.
8) Clothes that fit you well, flatter your body type, and are not trashy. Dresses and heels.

Sorry to derail, but you have to be blonde to be hot?

NP. If the number of white women with fake blonde hair is any indication , then the answer apparently is YES

Blond hair on anyone over 25 makes them look older.

It looks great on a tan and fit 19 year old, but it seriously ages most older women. If you're 30 and you dye your hair blond, expect to be mistaken for 40. That's just how it goes.

[Anonymous]

^ They are mostly 20/30 somethings.