30s female: How can I be hot?

[Anonymous]

I'm a female in my early 30s and I'd like to be hotter/more attractive than I am now. Back in my 20s I could go out with the flu, in my pjs, with no makeup and get hit on; now, not so much. It would be nice to turn a head every now and then, but yea, I do know I'll never be as attractive as I was a few years ago. What can I do to be somewhat hot again?

[Anonymous]

Oh, please. You are what, 33 at the oldest? Give me a break.

[Anonymous]

2 words. Thigh gap

[Anonymous]

You're talking like a teen. Grow up. Get some self esteem and self worth. If that's how you affirm yourself there's a reason other people aren't interested. Get a little more substance. Stay out of the bars or clubs. If you're trying to find a spouse, worthwhile people don't hang out in those. Get some decent hobbies.

[Anonymous]

Wait until you are 36 and those eggs start to dry up - you will have sex with anyone to have kids.

[Anonymous]

Hmmm, sounds like you should have married one of those guys who was interested in you back in your 20s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, please. You are what, 33 at the oldest? Give me a break.

LOL, yep.

I'm 37, my fiancé is 10 years younger and sexy as hell, and I regularly get hit on. I would guess my most attractive quality is that I'm confident enough that I don't need to ask how to be hot. (Though 6 days a week in the gym and great skin helps.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, please. You are what, 33 at the oldest? Give me a break.

LOL, yep.

I'm 37, my fiancé is 10 years younger and sexy as hell, and I regularly get hit on. I would guess my most attractive quality is that I'm confident enough that I don't need to ask how to be hot. (Though 6 days a week in the gym and great skin helps.)

It's true beauty fades and dumb is forever.

[Anonymous]

Have very low body fat (be fit). I'm not going to use the word skinny or thin because there are all sorts of connotations around that. But honestly, you will stand out for being very fit. Only 1/10 women in their 30s who are single are super fit. So, even if your face is only a 6/7 if you have a smokin body you'll be at the top. Same for guys. Working out and having broad shoulders and no belly puts you in a small group.

[Anonymous]

You are in your 30s. You can't be hot. Just do the best you can

[Anonymous]

The world would be such a better place if the men concentrated on providing as much value to the economy as possible (read: $$$$) and women concentrated on remaining fit and nurturing.

[Anonymous]

So someone is hot at 29 but not hot at 30? Great logic there. Not.

[Anonymous]

Dumb is not hot at 30. Brain transplant?

[Anonymous]

In DC all you have to do is dye your hair blonde.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are in your 30s. You can't be hot. Just do the best you can

You're just trying to get a reaction. Go somewhere.