Would you let your DH go on a solo vacation to Thailand?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.

Let's hope you are not sharing your disease souvenirs back here in the US. Pervert.

[Anonymous]

If he's made these solo trips before he has some kind of addiction that you should be very concerned about. Forget about not letting him go, I'd have much bigger concerns given you have children and they have friends. He could be a pedophile.

[Anonymous]

Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

It's not my DH, so that's pretty irrelevant, but they do an international golf trip every single year. Judging by the group, I'm almost certain that's all it was.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He has been on solo trips to Thailand, Laos, Vietnam before. So it's not a bucket list trip. We are married with two kids.


I'd like to take a poll on this. What do you think.

I wouldn't be with someone that wanted to vacation without me. Seriously...what is that all about?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

It's not my DH, so that's pretty irrelevant, but they do an international golf trip every single year. Judging by the group, I'm almost certain that's all it was.

Why in the hell would someone fly around the world to golf in Thailand? There are so much better golf courses in other parts the world. It's a cover story for a boys only sex tour. You should enlighten the wives.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

It's not my DH, so that's pretty irrelevant, but they do an international golf trip every single year. Judging by the group, I'm almost certain that's all it was.

Why in the hell would someone fly around the world to golf in Thailand? There are so much better golf courses in other parts the world. It's a cover story for a boys only sex tour. You should enlighten the wives.

They had never been there. So they went. When they got back, they said the golfing wasn't great, so they won't be going back. I think it's within the realm of possibility that people go to Thailand for reasons other than the sex industry. If that weren't the case, I probably wouldn't know so many people who have honeymooned there.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.

Let's hope you are not sharing your disease souvenirs back here in the US. Pervert.

Don't be ignorant. You think you touch a hooker than it's game over?! I've been with 100s of these girls and I'm clean as a whistle. Proper planning and prevention is all you need to be relatively safe.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

It's not my DH, so that's pretty irrelevant, but they do an international golf trip every single year. Judging by the group, I'm almost certain that's all it was.

Why in the hell would someone fly around the world to golf in Thailand? There are so much better golf courses in other parts the world. It's a cover story for a boys only sex tour. You should enlighten the wives.

Seriously! What was that discussion.....well...Me and the boys were considering St Andrew's or Augusta....but I hear the golf is really good IN THAILAND.

F NO

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you mean solo, like alone? Or solo, like without the family but with other people?

I know a DH who did a golf trip to Thailand with buddies that was kind of a bucket list for them, so nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

A solo trip to a place like Thailand, where he's already been, would raise red flags to me. Tell him to go on a solo trip to Utah to hike through some mountains.

Ha! His golf balls weren't the balls that got played with on that trip! You got played.

It's not my DH, so that's pretty irrelevant, but they do an international golf trip every single year. Judging by the group, I'm almost certain that's all it was.

Why in the hell would someone fly around the world to golf in Thailand? There are so much better golf courses in other parts the world. It's a cover story for a boys only sex tour. You should enlighten the wives.

They had never been there. So they went. When they got back, they said the golfing wasn't great, so they won't be going back. I think it's within the realm of possibility that people go to Thailand for reasons other than the sex industry. If that weren't the case, I probably wouldn't know so many people who have honeymooned there.

Uh yeah the beaches are amazing. It's a totally legit place to visit when you bring your OWN monogamous sex partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has been on solo trips to Thailand, Laos, Vietnam before. So it's not a bucket list trip. We are married with two kids.


I'd like to take a poll on this. What do you think.

I wouldn't be with someone that wanted to vacation without me. Seriously...what is that all about?

I don't have any problem with solo vacation - I love to do it because no one WANTS ANYTHING FROM ME! I love my husband but if he's along I'm thinking of his needs as well as mine. Maybe when I don't have children at home - I"ll feel differently. I do like to vacation with him but I LOVE to vacation by myself with friends. I can do whatever I want. It's very nice!!

Secondly, I have traveled solo in Thailand - and met lots of others who were as well - none of them were there for the sex trade. Then again - I was younger - early thirties. There were quite a few skanky men hanging out in the bars...ugh. But, Thailand has great beaches, great architecture in some of the old capitol cities, fun trekking and great food.

[Anonymous]

He has been before... what is the issue this time? Husband and I go on solo vacations. Each year we both get one, then we get a couples vacation and then a family vacation. We have three under three! He just came back from his and I am planning mine for the winter. What is the issue?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone.

Let's hope you are not sharing your disease souvenirs back here in the US. Pervert.

Don't be ignorant. You think you touch a hooker than it's game over?! I've been with 100s of these girls and I'm clean as a whistle. Proper planning and prevention is all you need to be relatively safe.

You're very lucky. My DH got herpes from a hooker. I'm sure he thought he was safe wearing that condom, but you can herpes even when you use condoms. Luckily I found out and kicked him out before I got herpes too.

[Anonymous]

My husband is not attracted to Asian women at all. He can go all he wants...