Would you let your DH go on a solo vacation to Thailand?
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Anonymous
| No. Sex tour. |
Anonymous
| He has a family with two kids. Why would he go on vacation alone? No, would be my answer. |
Anonymous
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OP, how long since you've been tested?
All of these places are known for sex tourism. A married man going on vacation alone is probably a pedophile. |
Anonymous
| Sex tourist is what I thought, too, unfortunately. |
Anonymous
Totally not crazy. But tell us more. What's going on, what's in your gut? |
Anonymous
Not sure in general but I definitely had a married professor in college who took frequent solo trips to Thailand that ultimately ended up being arrested for having a ton of child pornography. |
Anonymous
| My idea of a solo vacation would be going fly fishing someplace not flying half way around the world to have sex with a lady boy |
Anonymous
| Has he been to other areas of the world multiple times? |
Anonymous
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I'm a woman who lived in se Asia. My estimate is that around 99% of men who travel there solo partake in the sex industry. Honestly most are not pedophiles although some are and this area of the world attracts this. That is more found in Cambodia and Vietnam these days although I'm sure it can be found in bkk as well. Most men are are seeking more sexual experiences with more beautiful and younger women than they can get at home. There are a lot of very poor people in these countries so money goes further when purchasing sexual experiences.
If my husband informed me he was taking a solo trip there, we'd have a long discussion about it. If he insisted on going I would probably leave. Btw, I often travel solo and he does as well. I'd imagine he'd have pretty serious concerns if I informed him I was traveling solo to one of those places in the Caribbean that are known to provide local men for lonely ladies. |
Anonymous
Truth is, Thailand is beautiful. It has some of the best beaches in the world. The idea of going there as a couple is totally legit and would be great. But the idea of him going alone? Sorry, no effing way. |
Anonymous
| I go on such vacations. A blast of debauchery. If you don't want your DH to sleep around, don't let him go. There is little chance he won't partake if he's there alone. |
Anonymous
+3 Are there other factors-does he have friends there who he would be visiting? Is he open to the idea of you going with him? Are you open to the idea of going with him? |
Anonymous
| Solo vacations are weird. Why live together if you don't want to spend time together? |
Anonymous
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"let"?
The problem is not yes or no to "let" them go He wants to have sex outside the marriage? That's the only question/answer |
Anonymous
| Of course not. Sex. |