Out of a bad marriage, now being slutty

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just became a dad and I love it! I never wanted kids. In my first marriage, my ex-DW really wanted them. I said "maybe" but never got around to yes. We divorced when DW and I turned 43. Then, I met a 28 year old and fell in love! We had our first kid and man do I love being a dad! We are going to have 2, maybe 3 kids.

Okay, this is fake. But just as I can't expect many women to be happy for me if this was real. Then neither can women expect many married men to be happy with the thought that their frigid wives become sex hungry after divorce.

This was a stupid point that completely side tracks from the main discussion and focuses on some personal insecurity you have. This isn't about how ex-spouses would feel about wild sexual behavior after a divorce. Period.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What woman refers to herself as a slut? You sre either a MRA troll or need to get some self respect. Enjoying sex =/=slut.

Point taken, not a troll. But I can enjoy sex for a week and own the term "slut" for a short time and feel empowered by it. Being too uptight for too long makes the idea of being slutty pretty appealing at the moment.

NP. Not really. Slut is a slur against women. To use it on yourself shows such internalized self hatred that it boggles the mind

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[Anonymous]

Go for it!

Be safe with your body and feelings and have fun. Sex is fun. Sex with new people is fun.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What woman refers to herself as a slut? You sre either a MRA troll or need to get some self respect. Enjoying sex =/=slut.

Point taken, not a troll. But I can enjoy sex for a week and own the term "slut" for a short time and feel empowered by it. Being too uptight for too long makes the idea of being slutty pretty appealing at the moment.

NP. Not really. Slut is a slur against women. To use it on yourself shows such internalized self hatred that it boggles the mind

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just became a dad and I love it! I never wanted kids. In my first marriage, my ex-DW really wanted them. I said "maybe" but never got around to yes. We divorced when DW and I turned 43. Then, I met a 28 year old and fell in love! We had our first kid and man do I love being a dad! We are going to have 2, maybe 3 kids.

Okay, this is fake. But just as I can't expect many women to be happy for me if this was real. Then neither can women expect many married men to be happy with the thought that their frigid wives become sex hungry after divorce.

No wonder she won't fuck you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What woman refers to herself as a slut? You sre either a MRA troll or need to get some self respect. Enjoying sex =/=slut.

Point taken, not a troll. But I can enjoy sex for a week and own the term "slut" for a short time and feel empowered by it. Being too uptight for too long makes the idea of being slutty pretty appealing at the moment.

NP. Not really. Slut is a slur against women. To use it on yourself shows such internalized self hatred that it boggles the mind

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Oh please, crazy people.

Grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lots of folks get out of bad marriages (or even decent marriages) and decide to sow some oats for awhile.

Just be safe!!

Yes, read the Book Crazy Time about divorce. Nearly everyone I know goes through this phase. It's pretty normal!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What woman refers to herself as a slut? You sre either a MRA troll or need to get some self respect. Enjoying sex =/=slut.

Point taken, not a troll. But I can enjoy sex for a week and own the term "slut" for a short time and feel empowered by it. Being too uptight for too long makes the idea of being slutty pretty appealing at the moment.

NP. Not really. Slut is a slur against women. To use it on yourself shows such internalized self hatred that it boggles the mind

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[Anonymous]

OP, there is a decent percentage out there that are being slutty while still married. Some with permission, some without.

[Anonymous]

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Why on earth should anyone care how frequently a single, competent grown woman has sex?

Yes, the sky's the limit. Zero is fine, too.

Any future husband (if any) will care.

Chances of her finding a quality future husband will drop as the number of men who plough her now increases.

Yep. I understand people have past partners, but you sleep with half of DC and I'll sleep with you...and that's it. I won't be in a long term relationship with someone who has slept with tons of guys.

this is why women lie about their number

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Why on earth should anyone care how frequently a single, competent grown woman has sex?

Yes, the sky's the limit. Zero is fine, too.

Any future husband (if any) will care.

Chances of her finding a quality future husband will drop as the number of men who plough her now increases.

Yep. I understand people have past partners, but you sleep with half of DC and I'll sleep with you...and that's it. I won't be in a long term relationship with someone who has slept with tons of guys.

this is why women lie about their number

I don't like being in relationships with liars.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Why on earth should anyone care how frequently a single, competent grown woman has sex?

Yes, the sky's the limit. Zero is fine, too.

Any future husband (if any) will care.

Chances of her finding a quality future husband will drop as the number of men who plough her now increases.

Yep. I understand people have past partners, but you sleep with half of DC and I'll sleep with you...and that's it. I won't be in a long term relationship with someone who has slept with tons of guys.

this is why women lie about their number

I don't like being in relationships with liars.

women aren't liars, they just misrepresent the number of men they've slept with, so it's all good.

[Anonymous]

I was in and out of relationships for 26 years, before I got married. What else is there to do to have some fun in between SOBs?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
Why on earth should anyone care how frequently a single, competent grown woman has sex?

Yes, the sky's the limit. Zero is fine, too.

Any future husband (if any) will care.

Chances of her finding a quality future husband will drop as the number of men who plough her now increases.

Yep. I understand people have past partners, but you sleep with half of DC and I'll sleep with you...and that's it. I won't be in a long term relationship with someone who has slept with tons of guys.

this is why women lie about their number

I don't like being in relationships with liars.

Lots of fish in the sea. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just became a dad and I love it! I never wanted kids. In my first marriage, my ex-DW really wanted them. I said "maybe" but never got around to yes. We divorced when DW and I turned 43. Then, I met a 28 year old and fell in love! We had our first kid and man do I love being a dad! We are going to have 2, maybe 3 kids.

Okay, this is fake. But just as I can't expect many women to be happy for me if this was real. Then neither can women expect many married men to be happy with the thought that their frigid wives become sex hungry after divorce.

The men benefitting from her new found sex drive are happy.