Out of a bad marriage, now being slutty

[Anonymous]

I'd like OP's #

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry ladies, but exiting a sexless marriage then banging everyone in sight and taking the moral high ground is a real stretch. Accept that you're a slut and hope that you come to your senses and find someone you can have a real relationship with. Good luck with that.

Who died and made you the boss?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm mid-30's, got out of a really bad marriage with almost no affection, no touching, no sex. Five years later, there are lots of dating apps, and I've been using Tinder and Bumble to hook up. Anyone else respond to their divorce by being a slut?

Hot

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Why on earth should anyone care how frequently a single, competent grown woman has sex?

Yes, the sky's the limit. Zero is fine, too.

Any future husband (if any) will care.

Chances of her finding a quality future husband will drop as the number of men who plough her now increases.

Like she'd ever be stupid enough to cop to the real number. I don't even know my number, other than it's over 40 men, but my husband was never dumb enough to ask.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry ladies, but exiting a sexless marriage then banging everyone in sight and taking the moral high ground is a real stretch. Accept that you're a slut and hope that you come to your senses and find someone you can have a real relationship with. Good luck with that.

Your box is dusty.

[Anonymous]

Weird thread. It would make me nervous (as a guy) knowing my girlfriend had lots of sex after being divorced. I prefer partners who have been in long-term relationships, even if there were several of them. I also really worry about disease, as I have never had one.

On the other hand (as a guy) I have dated several divorced women who hadn't had any for 15 years and didn't remember how to anymore.

[Anonymous]

17:25, so you're like Goldilocks? Also, you seem to have a stupid view of STD transmission, and no, "I have never had one" despite thinking you have the thoughts of a boy.

What's weird to me are grown men and women being so nasty in a cowardly, quiet way about a single woman having as much sex as she does or does not want to have, where there's no hint of abuse, lying, lack of condoms, etc. Who could possibly care? I don't get it at all. Oh wait, I do. Losers care about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17:25, so you're like Goldilocks? Also, you seem to have a stupid view of STD transmission, and no, "I have never had one" despite thinking you have the thoughts of a boy.

What's weird to me are grown men and women being so nasty in a cowardly, quiet way about a single woman having as much sex as she does or does not want to have, where there's no hint of abuse, lying, lack of condoms, etc. Who could possibly care? I don't get it at all. Oh wait, I do. Losers care about that.

To your first paragraph, yes, I am extremely picky, and I want someone who is just right. Otherwise I'd prefer to be alone. I don't have stupid view of STD transmission, the kinds of things I like to do put me more at risk.

On your second paragraph, people are just passing on their opinion about what she is doing. If she didn't want to hear what others thought she should have forgone posting.

[Anonymous]

You are literally gambling with your life. Sexual predators love online dating sites.

[Anonymous]

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onymous wrote:
I could be OP. Separated 6 months rs in a sexless marriage. My DH had been my only sexual partner, we met in college. I'm actually really, really, really enjoying all this dating, making out, and sex. So far I've only hooked up with one guy, but it was amazing and felt wonderful.


Same here!

Now I am getting ready for some new experiences. PP, was it strange that you had only been with one man? How is the quality of sexual partners out there? Also, if you don't mind, what is your age (range)? I am 41.

Pp here. I'm 39. I really can't speak to the quality of sexual partners, but I can tell you that I am 100% uninhibited now. Like the one guy I hooked up with I picked based purely on his looks. In my marriage, I had to initiate 100% of the sex, but with this guy, he was totally in control and it felt amazing. It was just awesome.

I can't say as to the quality of sexual partners out there, because I really don't have a lot to go by. But damn, this is fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:An

onymous wrote:
I could be OP. Separated 6 months rs in a sexless marriage. My DH had been my only sexual partner, we met in college. I'm actually really, really, really enjoying all this dating, making out, and sex. So far I've only hooked up with one guy, but it was amazing and felt wonderful.


Same here!

Now I am getting ready for some new experiences. PP, was it strange that you had only been with one man? How is the quality of sexual partners out there? Also, if you don't mind, what is your age (range)? I am 41.

Pp here. I'm 39. I really can't speak to the quality of sexual partners, but I can tell you that I am 100% uninhibited now. Like the one guy I hooked up with I picked based purely on his looks. In my marriage, I had to initiate 100% of the sex, but with this guy, he was totally in control and it felt amazing. It was just awesome.

I can't say as to the quality of sexual partners out there, because I really don't have a lot to go by. But damn, this is fun.

Moral of this story- no matter how old and unattractive you are, you can always open your legs and find some horny kid will fill you void.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:An

onymous wrote:
I could be OP. Separated 6 months rs in a sexless marriage. My DH had been my only sexual partner, we met in college. I'm actually really, really, really enjoying all this dating, making out, and sex. So far I've only hooked up with one guy, but it was amazing and felt wonderful.


Same here!

Now I am getting ready for some new experiences. PP, was it strange that you had only been with one man? How is the quality of sexual partners out there? Also, if you don't mind, what is your age (range)? I am 41.

Pp here. I'm 39. I really can't speak to the quality of sexual partners, but I can tell you that I am 100% uninhibited now. Like the one guy I hooked up with I picked based purely on his looks. In my marriage, I had to initiate 100% of the sex, but with this guy, he was totally in control and it felt amazing. It was just awesome.

I can't say as to the quality of sexual partners out there, because I really don't have a lot to go by. But damn, this is fun.

Moral of this story- no matter how old and unattractive you are, you can always open your legs and find some horny kid will fill you void.

Ask any 22yo straight male and he will tell you pu$$y is pu$$y.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Why on earth should anyone care how frequently a single, competent grown woman has sex?

Yes, the sky's the limit. Zero is fine, too.

Any future husband (if any) will care.

Chances of her finding a quality future husband will drop as the number of men who plough her now increases.

Yep. I understand people have past partners, but you sleep with half of DC and I'll sleep with you...and that's it. I won't be in a long term relationship with someone who has slept with tons of guys.

[Anonymous]

I just became a dad and I love it! I never wanted kids. In my first marriage, my ex-DW really wanted them. I said "maybe" but never got around to yes. We divorced when DW and I turned 43. Then, I met a 28 year old and fell in love! We had our first kid and man do I love being a dad! We are going to have 2, maybe 3 kids.

Okay, this is fake. But just as I can't expect many women to be happy for me if this was real. Then neither can women expect many married men to be happy with the thought that their frigid wives become sex hungry after divorce.

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Anonymous wrote:What woman refers to herself as a slut? You sre either a MRA troll or need to get some self respect. Enjoying sex =/=slut.

Point taken, not a troll. But I can enjoy sex for a week and own the term "slut" for a short time and feel empowered by it. Being too uptight for too long makes the idea of being slutty pretty appealing at the moment.

NP. Not really. Slut is a slur against women. To use it on yourself shows such internalized self hatred that it boggles the mind