Husband "married beneath him"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my DH saw the title of every thread I read on DCUM, he'd be worried I thought he was an asshole and planning to divorce him. Quit looking for problems.

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This!

[Anonymous]

Two year old thread, people. Hopefully op is divorced by now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my DH saw the title of every thread I read on DCUM, he'd be worried I thought he was an asshole and planning to divorce him. Quit looking for problems.

+1
This!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't assume the worst because I know how easy it is to meander online.
Do you believe he married beneath him? If you are insecure about something that's okay, but you don't want to blame him for that.

I 'meander' a lot, read articles etc. about topics that vary a great deal. Something in the body of an article can lead me to an entirely different subject. If you ask me right away how I came to be on a site I can tell you. Ask me two weeks from now and I probably can't tell you the route I took to have landed there.

The OP's spouse could have seen something on a news site that reminded him of her comment and surfed on over...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if he did think that no man would be trolling the googles to read articles about it. Only women over analyze that kind of shit. Let it go.

+1 LOL
God if your DH could see your search history including this post yes probably be worried too! I’m also a SAHM and I totally get you, I think I bored and looking for something to worry about.

[Anonymous]

OP, his explanation sounds completely legitimate. You brought up a conversation/started a fight about marriage inequality and now you're complaining that he was looking into the issue. Your poor husband can't win!

Besides, I clicked on a thread about how to entice a married man to get him to cheat with you the other day - I certainly hope my husband wouldn't read anything into that! (And this is why reading people's search histories is a bad idea...did you not hear what happened to the cat?)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of the topics I read on this forum might make my DH nervous if he stalked what I read online! But we don't do that to each other out of respect. I read some trashy stuff on here about bad relationships....but I'm very happily married.

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You might think you are being proactive OP, but you are borrowing trouble. This should not have risen to the level of a conversation, let alone an argument.

Yup. I look up random things all the time. I was curious about the shifting NFL standards on players suspected of domestic abuse because I saw a newspaper article talking about the most recent case. I read at least 3 threads a week on DCUM about divorcing your spouse and/or something about cheating or AP. Here I am reading this thread with no experience of DH feeling like he married beneath him or vice versa.

Please don't borrow trouble.

+1 and it would be just like me to then google around the subject to see how common an issue it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound really annoying, insecure, and shrill.

I pity your husband.

Very abrasive. Try to turn off the ‘lawyer’ and stop torturing people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound really annoying, insecure, and shrill.

I pity your husband.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If my DH saw the title of every thread I read on DCUM, he'd be worried I thought he was an asshole and planning to divorce him. Quit looking for problems.

+1
This!

Yes. Not to mention, I look at porn every once in awhile, and later when I see the titles in my search history, I'm shocked. Article/video titles often mean nothing, and certainly don't necessarily have relevance to the search terms someone used.

-DW

[Anonymous]

Now you've gone down the rabbit hole, OP, it's only too easy to feel paranoid and vulnerable. Do your best to stay constructive.

[Anonymous]

Big deal

[Anonymous]

I think NBD. I would be embarrassed if my DH ever saw some of the stuff I read online. Not to mention the porn/erotica I watch and read. He would probably be horrified too!