Husband "married beneath him"

[Anonymous]

I found in my husband's internet search history an article with the topic "I married beneath me." I confronted him, and he said that because I complained of marriage inequality, he was googling marriage inequality and that this was a subject that popped up. Then he said because of my complaint, he thought "I" was thinking that he married beneath him. So it was preemptive.

I can't get past this. I'm an attorney turned SAHM because of his rigorous work/travel schedule.

What would you do if you saw this in your husband's search history?

[Anonymous]

Was that his actual search term or was that the title of the article that came up after he did whatever search he did?

[Anonymous]

I'd think he was a douchebag.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't assume the worst because I know how easy it is to meander online.
Do you believe he married beneath him? If you are insecure about something that's okay, but you don't want to blame him for that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found in my husband's internet search history an article with the topic "I married beneath me." I confronted him, and he said that because I complained of marriage inequality, he was googling marriage inequality and that this was a subject that popped up. Then he said because of my complaint, he thought "I" was thinking that he married beneath him. So it was preemptive.

I can't get past this. I'm an attorney turned SAHM because of his rigorous work/travel schedule.

What would you do if you saw this in your husband's search history?

Make a note to myself not to snoop around in my spouse's search history in the future.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. I'm secure in myself, my station in life and my marriage.

[Anonymous]

What did you complain about that drove him to do the search?

[Anonymous]

Ummm his explanation sounds reasonable. Unless he's like a Rockefeller and you aren't telling us.

[Anonymous]

Even if he did think that no man would be trolling the googles to read articles about it. Only women over analyze that kind of shit. Let it go.

[Anonymous]

You sound really annoying, insecure, and shrill.

I pity your husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound really annoying, insecure, and shrill.

I pity your husband.

This.

He'll probably be googling divorce next.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if he did think that no man would be trolling the googles to read articles about it. Only women over analyze that kind of shit. Let it go.

Ummmmm.... according to his search results he is?

Man, you people are dumb.

[Anonymous]

I'm also an attorney turned SAHM. hmm.

(I don't get why you are checking his search history, btw...this doesn't sound like a healthy situation)

You say you saw this and confronted your DH. I think part of the reason you can't get past it is no matter how much you rip into him and list all the stuff you do as a SAHM, confronting him doesn't open up the discussion for you to figure out where his head is at. So you assume the worst. Confronting him does not create the right environment for him to be truthful with you.

[Anonymous]

I don't even understand your post OP.

[Anonymous]

I hope he's met a stellar divorce attorney through you because that's his next step. You're nuts.