Husband "married beneath him"
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Anonymous
| what was the complaint re marriage inequality about? |
Anonymous
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You are in the wrong.
You shouldn't be looking in his search history. He is entitled to google anything he wants, it's just an expression of curiosity. If he makes you feel bad about yourself, take THAT up with him. But not what he googles. |
Anonymous
| Unless he actually gives you this vibe, I wouldn't even care. |
Anonymous
| His Google searching is no worse then you being on this forum site. Maybe you are the problem. |
Anonymous
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The things you people argue about. Now I know why you're all miserable.
Just a FYI, if your husband is like mine, his Google skills suck. I'd chalk it up to being man think. |
Anonymous
| So you're a snooper and this is what you exposed yourself over??? Not smart. |
Anonymous
| He read an article. You're reading waaaaaaay too much into it. Chill. |
Anonymous
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Let's just suppose the worst case scenario here: Your husband had the thought in his mind one day that he married beneath him and googled that. He found an article that discussed such feelings. Perhaps the article talked about how such feelings are normal from time to time, that everyone wonders whether they are beneath or above their spouse and mentally does a checklist, but ultimately what's important is your bond and teaming as a couple.
Put me down as Team So What. |
Anonymous
| Oh my god... The threads I click on out of curiosity have NO bearing on my personal beliefs about my marriage. You are nuts for snooping through his history and then haranguing him about every link he reads. |
Anonymous
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Recent Google search: "Killer Clown Epidemic".
If my husband then thought I was a closet Psycho Bozo b/c of that...? Good Lord. |
Anonymous
| Some of the topics I read on this forum might make my DH nervous if he stalked what I read online! But we don't do that to each other out of respect. I read some trashy stuff on here about bad relationships....but I'm very happily married. |
Anonymous
+1 You might think you are being proactive OP, but you are borrowing trouble. This should not have risen to the level of a conversation, let alone an argument. |
Anonymous
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OP, are you secure? Do you want to be a SAHM? You mention you are a SAHM due to his schedule, and you mention you are a lawyer. Are you projecting a bit? Just wondering if this really hit home because you might not be happy yourself. If you are, then no problem, SAHM is a great thing too. But if you are not happy, maybe it's time to think about things.
Your husband could be searching for the innocent reason he mentioned, or he might not be. Only he knows and unless you have other reasons to doubt him (like he previously extolled the virtue of two-income families, derided SAHMs, or something like that), I would let it go re: him. But, I would take a good look at yourself and see if you are content with the situation. |
Anonymous
| If you're actually reviewing his search history, your marriage is effectively over. |
Anonymous
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I swear, some women around here just really love to manufacture fights. "My husband looked up X and read Y and. Or I'm mad". Really? REALLY??
Your husband did nothing wrong. And you should seek counseling for your extreme insecurities. |