You honestly sound like a mooch who thinks people have kids just to be their little servants. Btw when you talk about kids working through college, it's huge snow storms like this that count as that type of work. |
Jesus, get a grip. No one owes you anything. Successful people aI know are successful specifically because they are NOT moochers. Not that you would have any clue about being successful. I know that pisses you off. |
I was happy to pay $60 today. Usually we pay $20, but he estimated that it took 2 1/2 - 3 times longer than usual. |
By the inch. What pussies. Just charge $25 for a sidewalk. |
Elderly are not moochers. It has nothing to do with being successful. A good successful person finds a balance between making money and taking advantage of someone in a difficult situation. |
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Boy has this thread derailed. I came on to see how much teen DS should charge given the huge amounts of snow.
Our neighborhood is full of elderly, mostly retired military and it is evident they live on large retirements. They can certainly pay for the service and seem happy to see teens who want to earn some money. I see no reason kids should work so hard for free just because someone is old. Now if they truly can't afford it, then that's another story. I would expect them to offer a token amount or a hot drink or something. It's nice to repay with some gratitude on both sides. |
Don't be niggardly. |
OP here. I agree ![]() I think some people are getting stir crazy and crabby today. My kids spent about three plus hours this morning shoveling the older lady's house. My husband had to help him with the end of the driveway after the plows came through because it was about three feet and hard there. I did our driveway with my husband and it took us a couple of hours together. It was very heavy, hard labor today. If I were paying a neighborhood teen to shovel today, I would give at least forty dollars, rounded up to fifty with a tip. My kid wants to ask for just five dollars because he feels badly that he was not strong enough to do it all himself like he usually does. We will probably come up with a number in between. Having shoveled today, this is way more work than even the foot we got last year. There is no shame with a kid accepting pay today from a neighbor who specifically approached him about hiring him to do this labor for them. |
I live on a corner lot with lots of sidewalk and two driveways. I paid a group of guys $100. It was well worth it. |
Sounds fair. No crabbing from me. |
I think the difference is that it is a state of emergency where I am, and not a typical occurrence to have snow so deep that power is going out, the grocery stores were running out of food, roads are not passable, etc so the right thing to do in an "out of the norm" and possible emergent situation is to help the elderly without expecting payment.
If it was typical lawn mowing, getting mail, or things that are frequent and expected I would agree that a discounted rate would be appropriate, but in the case of a freak snowstorm it feels a bit predatory and opportunistic, and therefore inappropriate to have your 12 year old out hustling an 85 year old lady for money for a safety issue such as slip/falls and the necessity of being able to get out of the house safely or allows others in safely. Just my two cents and I realize the OP was not specifically asking about this situation. Fwiw we called all of our elderly/widowed neighbors when my DH and teenage son walked to the store last night to see if anyone needed anything, and wouldn't think of trying to make money off a grocery delivery service. We have called every day and made sure their walks are shoveled (granted they are not driveways). I would be mortified if my sons asked for money rather than just cleaning them off for a nice surprise when they look out the windows |
It took 3 of us 3 hours. I would tell your son to charge hourly. $25 an hour.
A pro would charge at least $100 |
Elderly who can afford it taking advantage of a 12 year old? Entitled. |
I just paid our neighborhood teens $60.00, I think it was reasonable and fair, took them almost 2 hrs and it was a lot of work. I also got their number for tomorrow ( DH's foot is sprained and I have back issues). I was happy to see kids out and about trying to make some extra pocket money. If they come tomorrow I am gonna give them extra $20 for a trip to Starbucks. They did a really good job. |