DW's: Did you marry a guy who isn't that great in bed?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I could never marry a man who isn't good in bed. Sex is too important. If he wasn't satisfying me, I'd probably go nuts or be the biggest B ever.

So your hubby good in bed?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I did. My DH is hot and is well-endowed and can make me come several times, so I guess technically our sex life is good.

But he has no curiosity, or imagination. I'm not talking major role-playing stuff here, but he's not into foreplay, at all. Again, the fact that I come easily during PIV may have led him to believe I don't really need this. When I try to spice it up, it's like he needs written instructions. I can tell he is just biding time until he can stick it in.

Doesn't want to talk dirty, doesn't want to "work" during sex. I've stopped asking him to grab my ass, or my tits or to do something with his hands during sex b/c he just forgets the next time.

I am grateful for his great body and large hard dick, but sometimes I get sad knowing this is my sex life for the rest of my life. And yes I totally love him and he's a great father and husband so I don't see us ever separating. But passion? Not so much.

Sigh.

I fail to see the issue here. You sound pretty fortunate relative to the other poster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I could never marry a man who isn't good in bed. Sex is too important. If he wasn't satisfying me, I'd probably go nuts or be the biggest B ever.

So your hubby good in bed?

He was amazing. He would blow my mind night after night. I was a very happy women. There is nothing is world better than good sex. Nothing. I still have fantasies about him. He was very domineering and strong and would make me have multiple Os and we never used toys or anything to "help". We divorced. I have been with two other men since then and they were both awful by comparison. I don't think I'll ever have sex that good again, but part of me still has hope. And yes, I'm a much different person now. I can be a real B at times and I'm angry a lot. I think this world would be a lot different in a good way if everyone was getting good sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I could never marry a man who isn't good in bed. Sex is too important. If he wasn't satisfying me, I'd probably go nuts or be the biggest B ever.

So your hubby good in bed?

He was amazing. He would blow my mind night after night. I was a very happy women. There is nothing is world better than good sex. Nothing. I still have fantasies about him. He was very domineering and strong and would make me have multiple Os and we never used toys or anything to "help". We divorced. I have been with two other men since then and they were both awful by comparison. I don't think I'll ever have sex that good again, but part of me still has hope. And yes, I'm a much different person now. I can be a real B at times and I'm angry a lot. I think this world would be a lot different in a good way if everyone was getting good sex.

I know this is a very male centric point of view but what could cause a marriage with such hot sex to break apart?

[Anonymous]

^Let's just say he was very passionate. Couldn't control his temper. And once, he tried to kill me.