People with spouses who have cheated (and then you stuck together)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I doubt I'll become a Christian anyone soon, so that isn't going to help. I'm not sure where to go from here. That's not strictly true. I don't know where I want to go from here is more accurate.

I think more important than love, dh is still with me because of our children. And that is why I haven't left him, either. Not sure if that is good enough or not.

Op, my H cheated on me and we are still together.

But my BFF cheated on her H and they are still together. I have a lot of compassion for your situation.

If you are doing this for the children... Spend tons of time figuring out what you want to be, and be that.. That is best for your children.

Also, don't turn your back on your H... Married or not, your kids deserve a happy healthy dad and you can be an agent in his healing... Help give your kids a great dad.