Child Murdered at Fairfax County Daycare

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In addition to your inability to calculate simple arithmetic, the correct spelling is clairvoyant. Did you miss your spelling and vocabulary lessons as well? Because you are using clairvoyant incorrectly. The 22 year old mom takes precautions when choosing the proper daycare to make sure the daycare is a safe environment, this is called being responsible. Being clairvoyant means the ability to predict the future. The 22 year old is making a calculated decision in order to maximize her child’s future safety, she has admitted in an earlier post that there are no guarantees in life.

I too wish the rest of us could be so responsible.

She managed not to get pregnant 'til she was - we stand corrected - 19. But I'm heartened to see she's making responsible decisions now.

22 yo hear-the pill is only 99.9% effective, common knowledge. I was having sex and I knew there was a small chance of consequences. If I thought I couldn't handle the consequences I would have made the responsible decision to not have sex. I never made an irresponsible decision-ever.

Dear 22 year old-You're starting to really piss me off. A 19 year old who gets pregnant is NOT being responsible. The definition of a responsible 19 year old is one who doesn't have babies at 19, one goes to college, is thinking and planning their future.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear 22 year old mom - Please shut the f*%1 up until you are old enough to realize how insufferable you are.

Yeah-- having a baby when you're 18--- that clearly makes you a parenting and life choices expert. If only the rest of us could be so clairevoyant.

Yeah!

I was in college when I was 22, definitely not thinking of having children. Unthinkable.

I am 22 NOW idiot. How do you know I wasn't in college when I was 19 and got pregnant? How do you know I am not in school now? How do you know I have not graduated college and have a degree? There is night school, weekend classes...stop assuming. You're making an ASS out of yourself!

How do I know? Your grammar sucks!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear 22 year old mom - Please shut the f*%1 up until you are old enough to realize how insufferable you are.

Yeah-- having a baby when you're 18--- that clearly makes you a parenting and life choices expert. If only the rest of us could be so clairevoyant.

Yeah!

I was in college when I was 22, definitely not thinking of having children. Unthinkable.

I am 22 NOW idiot. How do you know I wasn't in college when I was 19 and got pregnant? How do you know I am not in school now? How do you know I have not graduated college and have a degree? There is night school, weekend classes...stop assuming. You're making an ASS out of yourself!

...and I quote myself. hahaha

[Anonymous]

I am not here to argue my grammar or education. Who cares if I misspelled 2 words because I am typing 100 miles a minute because you are pissing me off with your ignorance? The point here is that the mother is to blame for her childs death in this case. I weep for children like these and idiots like you daily. It's a sad world and seems to be getting worse every day.

[Anonymous]

$100 says Miss 22-year-old mom doesn't have a college degree -- despite her protestations to the contrary.

[Anonymous]

Wow. Attacking her for her age. Menopause getting you down?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am not here to argue my grammar or education. Who cares if I misspelled 2 words because I am typing 100 miles a minute because you are pissing me off with your ignorance? The point here is that the mother is to blame for her childs death in this case. I weep for children like these and idiots like you daily. It's a sad world and seems to be getting worse every day.

They are grasping for straws. I think the closer you get to being a senior citizen the more ornery you become. Diverting the issue to the age when you had your baby (nevermind the fact that the mom they are defending left her children with a 21 year old) and now pathetic diversions surrounding spelling.

You are probably one of hte most mature ones who takes responsiblity for your children and who watches over them. Apparantly coke heads and violent criminals a A OK with these posters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am not here to argue my grammar or education. Who cares if I misspelled 2 words because I am typing 100 miles a minute because you are pissing me off with your ignorance? The point here is that the mother is to blame for her childs death in this case. I weep for children like these and idiots like you daily. It's a sad world and seems to be getting worse every day.

There you go. You win. You're the best mother and nothing bad will ever, ever happen to your children. Feel better now? Now can you back the hell off of a woman who's just lost her child and feels a grief you will hopefully never know?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:$100 says Miss 22-year-old mom doesn't have a college degree -- despite her protestations to the contrary.

I'll put a wager on that! I'm sure she's a great example for her children too

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear 22 year old-You're starting to really piss me off. A 19 year old who gets pregnant is NOT being responsible. The definition of a responsible 19 year old is one who doesn't have babies at 19, one goes to college, is thinking and planning their future.

Who in the hell are you to decide what age is best for having children? Furthermore, your blanket statement about going to college is absurd! How many people on this planet actually go to college? How many in the U.S.? How many in northern Virginia? Are you saying EVERYONE is supposed to go to college before making babies? Next thing we know, everyone is supposed to have a single family home, zero debt, a 401k, and the perfect mate. Why don't we take it a step further and say that everyone should wait to have sex till they're married. Maybe you should relax and come back when you're not so pissed off. It seems your emotions are clouding your ability to think straight. NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME!

-greg

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am not here to argue my grammar or education. Who cares if I misspelled 2 words because I am typing 100 miles a minute because you are pissing me off with your ignorance? The point here is that the mother is to blame for her childs death in this case. I weep for children like these and idiots like you daily. It's a sad world and seems to be getting worse every day.

There you go. You win. You're the best mother and nothing bad will ever, ever happen to your children. Feel better now? Now can you back the hell off of a woman who's just lost her child and feels a grief you will hopefully never know?

I never asked for that, nor do i think I am the BEST mother in the world. Just much more responsible than someone who would leave there child in the care of an unlicensed cocain addict who didn't explore her options. Wager all you want on my college education, judge my parenting skills based on my age, shoot me down. I am used to it- but mature enough not to let it get to me. I knew it wouldn't be easy having a child so young and I have been judged since I started showing as I am judged walking through the grocery store with my 3 year old and I am showing agian. But I know my decisions are right, and I will stick by that no matter what

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Next thing we know, everyone is supposed to have a single family home, zero debt, a 401k, and the perfect mate.

Zero debt, retirement savings and a happy relationship. Yes, wouldn't that be awful...

[Anonymous]

So sad if everyone acted responsibly.

[Anonymous]

I never asked for that, nor do i think I am the BEST mother in the world. Just much more responsible than someone who would leave there child in the care of an unlicensed cocain addict who didn't explore her options. Wager all you want on my college education, judge my parenting skills based on my age, shoot me down. I am used to it- but mature enough not to let it get to me. I knew it wouldn't be easy having a child so young and I have been judged since I started showing as I am judged walking through the grocery store with my 3 year old and I am showing agian. But I know my decisions are right, and I will stick by that no matter what

If you were as mature and confident as you pretend to be, you wouldn't need to tear down another person in order to feel good about your own parenting decisions. A mature person would be much more compassionate and less judgemental than you are. If you want to call this shooting you down, so be it, but really, what you are doing is so incredibly cruel and immature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I never asked for that, nor do i think I am the BEST mother in the world. Just much more responsible than someone who would leave there child in the care of an unlicensed cocain addict who didn't explore her options. Wager all you want on my college education, judge my parenting skills based on my age, shoot me down. I am used to it- but mature enough not to let it get to me. I knew it wouldn't be easy having a child so young and I have been judged since I started showing as I am judged walking through the grocery store with my 3 year old and I am showing agian. But I know my decisions are right, and I will stick by that no matter what

If you were as mature and confident as you pretend to be, you wouldn't need to tear down another person in order to feel good about your own parenting decisions. A mature person would be much more compassionate and less judgemental than you are. If you want to call this shooting you down, so be it, but really, what you are doing is so incredibly cruel and immature.

Mentioning maturity and confidence on this board is laughable. The majority of posters are in their 30's and 40's and the forum is a war zone most of the time. And telling her she wouldn't need to tear others down if she were mature, while you're doing just that, is too funny for words.