Caucasian ladies, when did you start looking 'old'?

[Anonymous]

42. I'm fair and have had much too much fun in the sun. Wrinkles and a strange jaw line. My eyes also aren't as bright as they used to be.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is it just me, or does there seem to be a troll on DCUM who is hell bent on trying to make Caucasian women feel like old hags who are worthless after age 32? The person is all over the relationship and other forums.

It's not just you, I've noticed the same. Sorry you've never been a popular white girl, but it's time to let it go.

What? Put down whatever it is you're drinking. You're not making any sense.

White women are wealthier than women of other races and also are more likely to get married. There's an Asian woman living next door. Sure she looks younger Than I do but I've noticed how her husband treats her. When they go on bike rides her husband makes her pull the child in a carriage while he just rides by himself. I'd rather be old and white than stuck in N Asian marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it just me, or does there seem to be a troll on DCUM who is hell bent on trying to make Caucasian women feel like old hags who are worthless after age 32? The person is all over the relationship and other forums.

It's not just you, I've noticed the same. Sorry you've never been a popular white girl, but it's time to let it go.

What? Put down whatever it is you're drinking. You're not making any sense.

White women are wealthier than women of other races and also are more likely to get married. There's an Asian woman living next door. Sure she looks younger Than I do but I've noticed how her husband treats her. When they go on bike rides her husband makes her pull the child in a carriage while he just rides by himself. I'd rather be old and white than stuck in N Asian marriage.

And my White neighbor has a cheating White husband. I'd rather be less wealthy, better looking and have a faithful husband than be stuck in a crappy White marriage.

Generalizations go both ways.

[Anonymous]

I'm 36 and my hands are the part of me that really show my age. Years of obsessive hand-washing and sanitizing. And I never had a dishwasher until 2 years ago. And I never wore gloves while cleaning.

Any tips? I've tried every supposed miracle product.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 30 and don't look old yet. I bet if I had kids I would look hella old overnight.

Yes, you really would! It's like you've fulfilled your evolutionary purpose, so your body stops doing all of the things that contribute to beauty. Changes in hormones will deprive you of your youth. I'm black and despite our "don't crack" rule, I've seen how much parenthood has aged me. All of the pictures I took throughout my pregnancies and in early childhood stand as a record of this decline. At 38, I was taken for being in my 20s. Now, at 44, I read late 30s at best. I am universally "ma'am'd" now. Alas...

You may get hell for this, OP, but you ain't wrong, girl. My goodness, no.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it was a two-step process. Around 31-32, the first signs of aging appeared. Emerging crow's feet, a couple sun spots - I just didn't look "young" anymore. I was like holy crap, I am getting old before my time (perhaps because I am really fair).

But then things just plateaued for a while thankfully - really didn't notice any changes until 39-40, the next big dropoff. Now at 40 I have a couple of grays, laugh lines, even an incipient 11 on my forehead. My only "good" feature is that I really haven't noticed any sagging or slackness. I'd attribute that to a pretty consistent weight, slim but not skinny - even across two pregnancies where I gained on the slightly lower side of recommended each time (morning sickness).

[Anonymous]

I think the most dramatic aging starts from 50-55.

I just turned 50 and people still often think I am in my early 40's. However, in just the last year I have noticed more noticeable wrinkles on my face. Especially crow's feet, forehead and now near my lips.

[Anonymous]

Skinny white chick here. I felt like I started to look old (wrinkly) at 39, but then again, that's the year my mom died, so it was a hard year. Botox fixed me right up.

[Anonymous]

The day I start reading bitchy posts on this forum.

[Anonymous]

Interesting if white ppl here where to say things like that about black ppl. You would whip out the race card pretty quick. Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Since aging differs by race and I just turned 40, I'm curious to know when other white women started to feel that they looked 'old'?

Never.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd say around 40.

+1 with a steep acceleration around 44-45.

Omg yes!!

[Anonymous]

47, recently carded. Years of sunblock, no smoking and very little drinking were good to me plus good genes so very few grey hairs. Not enough to notice. My three signs are droopy upper eyelids, weird lines on my upper lip, and a change in the texture of my skin, especially arms, legs, neck and hands. I am mostly okay with it all except the saggy eyes and lip thing. And the skin. Sigh.

[Anonymous]

I'll let you know. I'm only 50 now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd say around 40.

+1 with a steep acceleration around 44-45.

Yes - yesterday a coworker asked me if I was "sick" - bitch, I'm 44 with a elementary school aged child. She's lucky I'm wearing pants.