Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Make me feel like I'm the most important guy in your life and that you're grateful for our marriage and the years committed to our family.

Translation: stop telling me I'm not fun whenever you're annoyed with me. Stop telling your friends that your marriage is a series of sacrifices. Recognize that your daily indulgence of your online crush is disrespectful to me and it makes me insecure.

You're beautiful. I love you. Stop dismissing my feelings.

who is this online crush???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Make me feel like I'm the most important guy in your life and that you're grateful for our marriage and the years committed to our family.

Translation: stop telling me I'm not fun whenever you're annoyed with me. Stop telling your friends that your marriage is a series of sacrifices. Recognize that your daily indulgence of your online crush is disrespectful to me and it makes me insecure.

You're beautiful. I love you. Stop dismissing my feelings.

who is this online crush???

If it's Justin Timberlake, it's cool. I'm a straight dude, and I have kind of a mancrush on him.

[Anonymous]

so do you guys really know any such alluring women that you so wonderfully describe

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Brazilian wax.

Actually, that's a good point.

1. Be nice
2. Don't be out-of-shape
3. Keep the body hair to a minimum (unless you are a lesbo/militant feminist, or you know that your man is into hair, down there)

interesting....how very chauvinistic of you.

[Anonymous]

My guy notices how I try to be sexy for him. He does the same for me. If he didn't take care of himself, I wouldn't want to have sex with him. It's consideration for your partner and their needs, not misogyny.

[Anonymous]

I am recently single and this thread makes me feel pretty good about spending Valentines Day alone this year...lol.

[Anonymous]

I am recently single and this thread makes me feel pretty good about spending Valentines Day alone this year...lol.

No joke. I am married (mostly happily) but these responses are pretty horrifying. (<--Egads, was that a nag!)

[Anonymous]

This is horrifying? How did you think men wanted women to make themselves more attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can anyone seriously answer OPs question? First, assume no one is nagging, then . . .

Those *are* serious answers: be nice and don't get out-of-shape. That's truly is most of it. Men are very simple.

If you are an out-of-shape nag, it will not matter that you got your hair done, and a mani/pedi, or are wearing perfume, or a nice dress, or use x brand make-up vs y brand make-up.

I am in shape and generally nice, but wanted to take it up a notch. Without asking, so he doesn't know what hit him.

So, you're going to surprise him with longer hair, as you suggested in your OP? How's that going to work?

[Anonymous]

Extensions?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I am recently single and this thread makes me feel pretty good about spending Valentines Day alone this year...lol.

No joke. I am married (mostly happily) but these responses are pretty horrifying. (<--Egads, was that a nag!)

Why are they horrifying? Has it just orrured to you that attraction is important? Or are you an obese nag?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:so do you guys really know any such alluring women that you so wonderfully describe

This is completely honest and you cannot believe how lucky I am to be married to my wife - been married for close on 25 years:

She is beautiful, not thin but not overweight either.

She has an awesome personality and most people who meet her and come to know her end up liking her - women and men.

She is highly educated and makes a substantial income in a professional capacity

She is a great mother - perhaps a shade overprotective

She truly believes that her most important roles are to be a good mother and a supportive and loving wife

She never feels a need to compete with me - so there is none of the business of equality between genders - but we do have an equal relationship

She is sensuous and a passionate lover - less so today than some years ago but still all there

She is the most even tempered woman I have ever known - hardly anything rattles her

She is spiritual without being religious or pedantic

She dresses well and takes pride in her appearance

She is responsible about money

If I had a major objection to something she did, her attitude would not be one of wanting to assert her independence but to make sure that it does not become an issue that could disrupt our relationship.

There were times when she made more money than I did and other times when I made more than she did but when it was the former, not once did she ever feel the need to assert some sort of dominance.

I could go on .......... and all of it would be true. I hit the jackpot and the weird thing is that she thinks she was lucky to get me though I am not nearly as complete and good a person as she is. I do try and please her as much as I can because she just makes me want to do so based on the kind of person she is.

I guarantee you that if a woman has some or most of her characteristics, it would be hard for most men not to find such a woman undesirable. But in all honesty, I have never met anyone who comes close to being like her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Brazilian wax.

Actually, that's a good point.

1. Be nice
2. Don't be out-of-shape
3. Keep the body hair to a minimum (unless you are a lesbo/militant feminist, or you know that your man is into hair, down there)

interesting....how very chauvinistic of you.

+1. Most lesbos also prefer the clean shaven look.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. I mean, am I talking to women in general? Or my wife, who I do truly love.

Without going for the obvious "daily blowjob" answer, it wouldn't hurt to be surprised every once in awhile. Wear something sexy to bed, or at the very least, don't wear my t-shirts and a pair of sweats. I'm not that concerned about weight so long as you're not seriously overweight. A few extra pounds is no big deal if you dress in a way that flatters yourself and have confidence. Long hair is certainly preferred over the pixie cut. I've seen one woman with that hairstyle which made my jaw drop...Robin Wright Penn in House of Cards. It works on so few women though. As a recent example, look at Kaley Cuoco on big bang theory. That is a horrible downgrade of a hairstyle that she's sporting now.

Maybe I'm just an easy guy, but if you make a little effort to look sexy and occasionally surprise me physically, I'm pretty good to go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:so do you guys really know any such alluring women that you so wonderfully describe

This is completely honest and you cannot believe how lucky I am to be married to my wife - been married for close on 25 years:

She is beautiful, not thin but not overweight either.

She has an awesome personality and most people who meet her and come to know her end up liking her - women and men.

She is highly educated and makes a substantial income in a professional capacity

She is a great mother - perhaps a shade overprotective

She truly believes that her most important roles are to be a good mother and a supportive and loving wife

She never feels a need to compete with me - so there is none of the business of equality between genders - but we do have an equal relationship

She is sensuous and a passionate lover - less so today than some years ago but still all there

She is the most even tempered woman I have ever known - hardly anything rattles her

She is spiritual without being religious or pedantic

She dresses well and takes pride in her appearance

She is responsible about money

If I had a major objection to something she did, her attitude would not be one of wanting to assert her independence but to make sure that it does not become an issue that could disrupt our relationship.

There were times when she made more money than I did and other times when I made more than she did but when it was the former, not once did she ever feel the need to assert some sort of dominance.

I could go on .......... and all of it would be true. I hit the jackpot and the weird thing is that she thinks she was lucky to get me though I am not nearly as complete and good a person as she is. I do try and please her as much as I can because she just makes me want to do so based on the kind of person she is.

I guarantee you that if a woman has some or most of her characteristics, it would be hard for most men not to find such a woman undesirable. But in all honesty, I have never met anyone who comes close to being like her.

Wow! knock on wood! i am happy for you- signed the incomplete baldy