Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Listen to and take the hints your husband is dropping. Tune in to his thinking. No I'm not telling you to become a mind reader, just listen with open ears.

Don't think that you can start packing on the weight and settle into your "married" figure. Attraction is both mental and physical.

Brag about the nice things your husband does to your friends.

Surprise him with morning sex/BJ.

Text him dirty pics/vids while he is at work. Guys LOVE this.

Plan a surprise night out and not just out for a boring dinner. Dinner and then a salsa club or somewhere that has lots of energy in the air.

Ask him what his fantasies are and reassure him he can speak honestly without fear of rejection or loathing. Many guys have desires they will not voice out of fear of rejection.

And guys, this list applies to you too.

I'm pretty sure my husband would hate this! Actually, he'd hate much of this. Guess the old "there's someone for everyone" thing is true.

I think my husband would rather have a root canal than a surprise date night going salsa dancing.

My DH likes the dirty pictures, but salsa dancing? Horrible for everyone. Yawn.

[Anonymous]

OP asked for opinion from men about what would make a woman more attractive to a man (like me):

At the beginning, a nice smile, pretty face, good laugh and an attractive figure woild do it for me.

Once we are into the relationship, be fun, enjoy my company, do,things I like to do once in awhile, don't be needy, don't act as if you are the center of the universe. Respect my job and career and my family, do not do not do make the house and the kids the be all and end all. I do not require perfect. Don't scream at me if I don't stack the dishes in the dishwasher as you would, otherwise you can do it yourself, instead, be grateful and show it. Make yourself sexy for sex. Seduce me, be playful. Just tellongme you want to have sexwhile your in your flannel pjs or just cursed e out over the dishwasher is not sexy.

Don't be negative about other people. I do not care how that other woman is dressed or that she is fat. If you are insecure, see a therapist. I am not one.

Try to be happy!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP asked for opinion from men about what would make a woman more attractive to a man (like me):

At the beginning, a nice smile, pretty face, good laugh and an attractive figure woild do it for me.

Once we are into the relationship, be fun, enjoy my company, do,things I like to do once in awhile, don't be needy, don't act as if you are the center of the universe. Respect my job and career and my family, do not do not do make the house and the kids the be all and end all. I do not require perfect. Don't scream at me if I don't stack the dishes in the dishwasher as you would, otherwise you can do it yourself, instead, be grateful and show it. Make yourself sexy for sex. Seduce me, be playful. Just tellongme you want to have sexwhile your in your flannel pjs or just cursed e out over the dishwasher is not sexy.

Don't be negative about other people. I do not care how that other woman is dressed or that she is fat. If you are insecure, see a therapist. I am not one.

Try to be happy!

Honey?