Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can anyone seriously answer OPs question? First, assume no one is nagging, then . . .

Those *are* serious answers: be nice and don't get out-of-shape. That's truly is most of it. Men are very simple.

If you are an out-of-shape nag, it will not matter that you got your hair done, and a mani/pedi, or are wearing perfume, or a nice dress, or use x brand make-up vs y brand make-up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd rather be on my own and comfortable in my own skin than contort myself into someone else's ideal that always feels like a lot of work.

So, is this recent or have you been single your whole life?

I'm actually quite contentedly married these days. But I spend plenty of time single in my younger years, and was okay with the idea of never getting married if I didn't find someone who suited me. When I did, it was just a happy thing that enriched my life, not something that made it harder.

Do you have kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can anyone seriously answer OPs question? First, assume no one is nagging, then . . .

Those *are* serious answers: be nice and don't get out-of-shape. That's truly is most of it. Men are very simple.

If you are an out-of-shape nag, it will not matter that you got your hair done, and a mani/pedi, or are wearing perfume, or a nice dress, or use x brand make-up vs y brand make-up.

I am in shape and generally nice, but wanted to take it up a notch. Without asking, so he doesn't know what hit him.

[Anonymous]

I hate threads like this. What the hell are you thinking? Women don't exist to please men.

Here's what you're going to get: Be thin! Don't nag! Blow jobs every day! Wear high heels! Shorter skirts! No sweatpants! Do that awesome thing where your hair is perfectly straight!

--happily married to man who wanted an equal partner, not a decorative Stepford wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate threads like this. What the hell are you thinking? Women don't exist to please men.

Here's what you're going to get: Be thin! Don't nag! Blow jobs every day! Wear high heels! Shorter skirts! No sweatpants! Do that awesome thing where your hair is perfectly straight!

--happily married to man who wanted an equal partner, not a decorative Stepford wife.

Congratulations, you evolved female. I bet your husband uses more hair product than you.

[Anonymous]

I find good grammar attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can anyone seriously answer OPs question? First, assume no one is nagging, then . . .

Those *are* serious answers: be nice and don't get out-of-shape. That's truly is most of it. Men are very simple.

If you are an out-of-shape nag, it will not matter that you got your hair done, and a mani/pedi, or are wearing perfume, or a nice dress, or use x brand make-up vs y brand make-up.

I am in shape and generally nice, but wanted to take it up a notch. Without asking, so he doesn't know what hit him.

I honestly am not sure. I would have to think about it.

A woman who fulfills the first two criteria is basically a unicorn, so I'm not used to having the luxury of thinking of a #3.

[Anonymous]

It's funny because after seeing some of the recent threads I was really tempted to post a new thread.

I really hope that women know that almost all women are beautiful.

I hardly know anyone who couldn't be attractive or doesn't have some guy that wants them.

It really is all about self confidence and something like a simple smile can make a girl look beautiful.

If someone senses or views a warm personality they'll probably be attracted to you.

Then as for hotness, it's all the typical things that turns guys on.(I had to double check which subforum this is or else might've gone into a little bit more detail) That might not always be necessary. Where just because a guy thinks you're hot doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to be in a relationship with you. And I hope it doesn't offend, but you know the saying, for every hot girl, there's a guy that's bored of sleeping with her.

But I honestly hope all the women on here know how beautiful they are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate threads like this. What the hell are you thinking? Women don't exist to please men.

Here's what you're going to get: Be thin! Don't nag! Blow jobs every day! Wear high heels! Shorter skirts! No sweatpants! Do that awesome thing where your hair is perfectly straight!

--happily married to man who wanted an equal partner, not a decorative Stepford wife.

Congratulations, you evolved female. I bet your husband uses more hair product than you.

Ha, he is 100 percent bald, and I love it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate threads like this. What the hell are you thinking? Women don't exist to please men.

Here's what you're going to get: Be thin! Don't nag! Blow jobs every day! Wear high heels! Shorter skirts! No sweatpants! Do that awesome thing where your hair is perfectly straight!

--happily married to man who wanted an equal partner, not a decorative Stepford wife.

Congratulations, you evolved female. I bet your husband uses more hair product than you.

Ha, he is 100 percent bald, and I love it

I stand corrected. I debated about "uses more hair product" or "shaves" and picked the wrong one.

[Anonymous]

Brazilian wax.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Brazilian wax.

Actually, that's a good point.

1. Be nice
2. Don't be out-of-shape
3. Keep the body hair to a minimum (unless you are a lesbo/militant feminist, or you know that your man is into hair, down there)

[Anonymous]

I think my guy appreciates the effort. Especially if it's work-related, I don't want to convey laziness. I'm not getting plastic surgery or anything drastic, but I try to dress nice, fix my hair and put on decent makeup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate threads like this. What the hell are you thinking? Women don't exist to please men.

Here's what you're going to get: Be thin! Don't nag! Blow jobs every day! Wear high heels! Shorter skirts! No sweatpants! Do that awesome thing where your hair is perfectly straight!

--happily married to man who wanted an equal partner, not a decorative Stepford wife.

I think you've overreacted.

The "don't nag" speaks to kindness. Kindness goes a long way to making one more attractive. Kindness is also a rarity in these parts.

[Anonymous]

I'm a DH who volunteers at my kids school once a month. Whenever I go there and see the other mothers I return home so grateful foe my beautiful wife. She exercises daily, eats healthy, is thin, strong, and as a result sexy as hell. I truly am shocked at the physical condition of these other similar aged mothers.