Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Use pronouns correctly.

No, seriously, nagging less will get you 90% of the way.

What if I just dont give a fuck and feel entitled to say when someone is doing things wrong? And I dont really care if a guy is turned off by that? What happens then?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is fascinating. I almost feel like counting the responses to see which traits come out on top.

I have a question though. What if a woman hits all the marks but one? For example, she's warm and happy, nice to you, long hair, makeup, loves having sex with you, but she's a size 10 instead of a 6. She likes her body and knows how to wear clothes that flatter it (dresses, skirts, fitted pants, etc). What then?

In other words, if you had to pick one top trait that's most important, which would it be?

Tough to pick. For me, missing the mark on a couple isn't a deal breaker.

Sexual enthusiasm is way up there.

But, a loving personality is probably a necessity for a long term relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Use pronouns correctly.

No, seriously, nagging less will get you 90% of the way.



What if I just dont give a fuck and feel entitled to say when someone is doing things wrong? And I dont really care if a guy is turned off by that? What happens then?

Wow, sounds like you're really interested in that whole "making yourself more attractive" thing. And working hard at it. Keep it up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread is fascinating. I almost feel like counting the responses to see which traits come out on top.

I have a question though. What if a woman hits all the marks but one? For example, she's warm and happy, nice to you, long hair, makeup, loves having sex with you, but she's a size 10 instead of a 6. She likes her body and knows how to wear clothes that flatter it (dresses, skirts, fitted pants, etc). What then?

In other words, if you had to pick one top trait that's most important, which would it be?

Tough to pick. For me, missing the mark on a couple isn't a deal breaker.

Sexual enthusiasm is way up there.

But, a loving personality is probably a necessity for a long term relationship.

Oh come off it. 90% of men will get with a women as long as she isn't obese and she's nice to him and acts like the sun rises on his dick. That's all men care about. They are about as simpleminded as a frog.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.

I am a woman and this thread is making my day. Thank you.
I have long hair and had no idea it was that popular with men.
I find that actually men are not asking that much.
I have three kids, and a job that I love, but I am slim and fit and as somebody else mentioned in another post, I speak several languages, read books, go to shows, theaters and I enjoy sex. That is pretty much all that is asking in this thread.
I had not idea I was such a catch ? but I am happily married.

Creepy.

Are you working mom from the other thread????

What is creepy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread is fascinating. I almost feel like counting the responses to see which traits come out on top.

I have a question though. What if a woman hits all the marks but one? For example, she's warm and happy, nice to you, long hair, makeup, loves having sex with you, but she's a size 10 instead of a 6. She likes her body and knows how to wear clothes that flatter it (dresses, skirts, fitted pants, etc). What then?

In other words, if you had to pick one top trait that's most important, which would it be?

Tough to pick. For me, missing the mark on a couple isn't a deal breaker.

Sexual enthusiasm is way up there.

But, a loving personality is probably a necessity for a long term relationship.

Oh come off it. 90% of men will get with a women as long as she isn't obese and she's nice to him and acts like the sun rises on his dick. That's all men care about. They are about as simpleminded as a frog.

Men are way more complicated than you state. Men are just as complicated as women. Stop comparing them to frogs. You sound really foolish.

[Anonymous]

I'll go further. PP here. your viewpoint is antiquated.

Letting men off the hook as incapable of doing simple fucking shit while ruling the world is ludicrous. Oh, DH can handle this merger/acquisition but is so simple minded he can't sort the incoming mail on a daily basis.

Barf! Barf! Barf! to that BS.

Many women dote on their men like a mother figure. Stop being mommy, and be a partner. You know, like the partner he has at work who doesn't wipe his ass when shit hits the fan.

[Anonymous]

Amazing how much crazy hate and anger this thread has generated. To summarize:
- long hair
- don't get fat
- don't nag incessantly
- have sex

To me, this is not news . . . Done & done.

[Anonymous]

Is this a total order? If so, I'd reverse it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Amazing how much crazy hate and anger this thread has generated. To summarize:
- long hair
- don't get fat
- don't nag incessantly
- have sex

To me, this is not news . . . Done & done.

The hair isn't all that important.
But the other 3 are total deal breakers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Amazing how much crazy hate and anger this thread has generated. To summarize:
- long hair
- don't get fat
- don't nag incessantly
- have sex

To me, this is not news . . . Done & done.

This describes every woman in NW DC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amazing how much crazy hate and anger this thread has generated. To summarize:
- long hair
- don't get fat
- don't nag incessantly
- have sex

To me, this is not news . . . Done & done.

This describes every woman in NW DC.

You must have not met the many shrewish harpies in sexless marriages in NW DC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm 36 and I have no interest in dating for many of the reasons stated above. This threat is disgusting.

I'm 26 and feel the same. So many of the "men" on DCUM are flat out losers. This thread is proof.

These men aren't typical. They are pathetic, which is why they are spending their time on DCUM trolling people.

[Anonymous]

Let's see...be a doctor, lawyer, or some other high earning professional from a top school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread is fascinating. I almost feel like counting the responses to see which traits come out on top.

I have a question though. What if a woman hits all the marks but one? For example, she's warm and happy, nice to you, long hair, makeup, loves having sex with you, but she's a size 10 instead of a 6. She likes her body and knows how to wear clothes that flatter it (dresses, skirts, fitted pants, etc). What then?

In other words, if you had to pick one top trait that's most important, which would it be?

Tough to pick. For me, missing the mark on a couple isn't a deal breaker.

Sexual enthusiasm is way up there.

But, a loving personality is probably a necessity for a long term relationship.

Oh come off it. 90% of men will get with a women as long as she isn't obese and she's nice to him and acts like the sun rises on his dick. That's all men care about. They are about as simpleminded as a frog.

Men are way more complicated than you state. Men are just as complicated as women. Stop comparing them to frogs. You sound really foolish.

I don't think so. I work with a lot of single men who date quite a bit, and they definitely go for looks. When they tell me stories of their dates, I have to laugh because while these women might be attractive, they are all bat $hit crazy. When I tell them this, they say it took them a while to figure it out, but all they saw was "pretty". A good friend of mine dated a very attractive woman for several years, and she was a nightmare. He finally broke it off and is dating someone his own age, and he is so much happier. She is not as attractive as his ex-gf, but she is so nice and they have a lot in common.