Suit for a little girl (wedding)?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Come on, no one said sweats. OP said no buttondown and khakis. But you all insisting this 8 yr old wear a fluffy dress are ridiculous. There's lots of examples here of great looking appropriate pants, top and vest or jacket.

Yeah, but the problem is except for one thing that OP is trying to find in a cheaper option, OP said her DD won't wear any of the examples on this thread either. At some point, the event is going to be tomorrow and it is going to need an outfit. Sometimes in life people have to settle for necessary rather than preferred. If I were OP I would offer a few pants and top outfits with some of the tops from this thread, and a dress, and let DD pick from among those but "none of the above" would not be an option.

I would allow "none of the above" to be an option. And if my child then went in inappropriate clothes and felt like a fool --- well, experience is the best teacher.

No you would look like the fool who has a child raising their parents. At 8yrs old, the disrespect of showing up poorly dressed at a formal event would fall on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on, no one said sweats. OP said no buttondown and khakis. But you all insisting this 8 yr old wear a fluffy dress are ridiculous. There's lots of examples here of great looking appropriate pants, top and vest or jacket.

Never said a fluffy dress. If you look back at my comment I said my daughter tried on black dress pants and shirts that I offered her. In the end she found the black dress to be more comfortable. She has then worn that dress 4 more times to Bat and Bar Mitzvahs. My son wanted to wear khakis and I said no. Formal invitation means dress or dress suit for girls and suit and tie for men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:http://www.thefader.com/2014/12/17/shilohs-suit-game-is-on-fleek

Let her wear what Shiloh wears and she'll kill it.

So if my 8yr old son wanted to wear a dress, would he have "killed it" too?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Come on, no one said sweats. OP said no buttondown and khakis. But you all insisting this 8 yr old wear a fluffy dress are ridiculous. There's lots of examples here of great looking appropriate pants, top and vest or jacket.

Yeah, but the problem is except for one thing that OP is trying to find in a cheaper option, OP said her DD won't wear any of the examples on this thread either. At some point, the event is going to be tomorrow and it is going to need an outfit. Sometimes in life people have to settle for necessary rather than preferred. If I were OP I would offer a few pants and top outfits with some of the tops from this thread, and a dress, and let DD pick from among those but "none of the above" would not be an option.

I would allow "none of the above" to be an option. And if my child then went in inappropriate clothes and felt like a fool --- well, experience is the best teacher.

No you would look like the fool who has a child raising their parents. At 8yrs old, the disrespect of showing up poorly dressed at a formal event would fall on you.

But I honestly don't care about the opinions of people who would think less of somebody based on their child's clothes.

Also, I don't think that my child's clothes are about me. I don't think that my husband's clothes are about me, either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:http://www.thefader.com/2014/12/17/shilohs-suit-game-is-on-fleek

Let her wear what Shiloh wears and she'll kill it.

So if my 8yr old son wanted to wear a dress, would he have "killed it" too?

Sure!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Come on, no one said sweats. OP said no buttondown and khakis. But you all insisting this 8 yr old wear a fluffy dress are ridiculous. There's lots of examples here of great looking appropriate pants, top and vest or jacket.

Never said a fluffy dress. If you look back at my comment I said my daughter tried on black dress pants and shirts that I offered her. In the end she found the black dress to be more comfortable. She has then worn that dress 4 more times to Bat and Bar Mitzvahs. My son wanted to wear khakis and I said no. Formal invitation means dress or dress suit for girls and suit and tie for men.

Are you Anonymous?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Come on, no one said sweats. OP said no buttondown and khakis. But you all insisting this 8 yr old wear a fluffy dress are ridiculous. There's lots of examples here of great looking appropriate pants, top and vest or jacket.

Yeah, but the problem is except for one thing that OP is trying to find in a cheaper option, OP said her DD won't wear any of the examples on this thread either. At some point, the event is going to be tomorrow and it is going to need an outfit. Sometimes in life people have to settle for necessary rather than preferred. If I were OP I would offer a few pants and top outfits with some of the tops from this thread, and a dress, and let DD pick from among those but "none of the above" would not be an option.

I would allow "none of the above" to be an option. And if my child then went in inappropriate clothes and felt like a fool --- well, experience is the best teacher.

No you would look like the fool who has a child raising their parents. At 8yrs old, the disrespect of showing up poorly dressed at a formal event would fall on you.

But I honestly don't care about the opinions of people who would think less of somebody based on their child's clothes.

Also, I don't think that my child's clothes are about me. I don't think that my husband's clothes are about me, either.

LOL, is this for real? Then just let them show up in pajamas then.

[Anonymous]

STOP. Dressy pants top and jacket are perfectly appropriate for a formal wedding. That's what we're talking about. What are you talking about.

[Anonymous]

A wedding with children in attendance isn't very formal. Kudos to you mom for not forcing you child to wear something she'll be uncomfortable in.

[Anonymous]

This would be really cute with black skinny pants. She will be the chicest girl at the wedding.

https://www.jcrew.com/girls_category/jackets/blazers/PRDOVR~99417/99417.jsp


OP again. LOVE this idea. Going to look on ebay for something similar (and cheaper)! Thanks, PP!

I love this as well, OP. GL and I hope you find a good option for your DD.

Also, kudos to you for being a supportive parent to the child you have and not trying to make her someone she is not.

[Anonymous]

If you search for "little girls blazer" on Pinterest you may see some good ideas (in between all the not-so-good ones). Maybe some velvet pants with a tunic length shirt and a blazer?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She's 8? How big of a power struggle would it cause for you to just say, OK for normal everyday clothes you can pick pretty much anything you feel comfortable in but for formal events people just have to suck it up and wear what's appropriate. Pick between one of these 3. Then show her a few of the tops you said she "wouldn't" wear. Formal outfits aren't exactly a choice in our home, so that's what I would lean towards doing.

THIS

Since when has it become politically correct to let a child pick out their formal wear? Back in the 80's, I would have picked what Madonna wore to the VMA's if given free range. Should my parents have let me done that? My oldest DD hates dresses - hates them. But I certainly wasn't going to let her wear jeans to her uncles wedding. We found a simple black dress and ballet flats to compromise on. We tried a few black dress pants and tops but she realized the dress was actually much more comfortable. Do you think my son wanted to wear a suit? No. He begged for khakis and a shirt but it was a formal wedding so suit and tie it is.

+1

Just look at Church. They all dress like slobs now and come in with electronic toys to boot. Parents aren't raising kids anymore. They just let them do what they want, wear what they want, complain when they want. Manners and etiquette went out the door with this generation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She's 8? How big of a power struggle would it cause for you to just say, OK for normal everyday clothes you can pick pretty much anything you feel comfortable in but for formal events people just have to suck it up and wear what's appropriate. Pick between one of these 3. Then show her a few of the tops you said she "wouldn't" wear. Formal outfits aren't exactly a choice in our home, so that's what I would lean towards doing.

This

Stop catering to her and stop wasting your time on this. She needs to suck it up and deal.

[Anonymous]

This thread is about formal wear for an 8 yr old wedding guest. No idea why posters insist on blabbing about sweats, t-shirts and inappropriate dress.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I would allow "none of the above" to be an option. And if my child then went in inappropriate clothes and felt like a fool --- well, experience is the best teacher.

No you would look like the fool who has a child raising their parents. At 8yrs old, the disrespect of showing up poorly dressed at a formal event would fall on you.

But I honestly don't care about the opinions of people who would think less of somebody based on their child's clothes.

Also, I don't think that my child's clothes are about me. I don't think that my husband's clothes are about me, either.

LOL, is this for real? Then just let them show up in pajamas then.

But as it happens, they wouldn't want to show up in pajamas, because they don't want to feel like fools.