Does it bother anyone that the same people who post on the explicit forum post here?

[Anonymous]

OP, does it bother you that people who post on the explicit forum are parents at your kids' elementary school? Because I do, and I am.

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No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?

I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

I'm on that forum and you are right, I am not in favor of monogamy, for me. But the last thing I want is to steal your husband.

I post on both. I actually spit out my drink when I read this; it could be me! I also am not monogamous and don't purport to know what works for others. And the last thing I want is to steal anyone's spouse! In fact, I don't have to. My lover is married and their spouse knows and likes me. I don't cheat and don't fuck with cheaters.

I like the explicit forum; I've read some hot posts and gotten some good advice. Check it out; you might learn something.

[Anonymous]

I'm a DCUM regular, have been for a long time. I'm a normal, married WOHM, with kids in DCPS. I'm your neighbor, that mom at school, the professional you work with. I visit all the forums around here and most frequently visit and post on explicit, often quite kinky stuff. I'm not pro-cheating. In fact, I'm vocally anti-cheating, even in that forum.

We're not really any different from the rest of you. You've been interacting with us in the other forums all this time.

I find it amusing that people are SHOCKED and UPSET about the explicit forum, given all the nasty, truly objectionable crap that is posted on the "regular" forums all the time.

There was a similar, pearl-clutching thread not too long ago by another OP who "accidentally" ventured into the explicit playground. Not sure why it's even worth making a topic about it ...

Live and let live.

LTA

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I post there under my user name and here as anon =)

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Anonymous wrote:I accidentally clicked on explicit forum and WOW. It seems a bit strange to me that all of us are posting about our children, pregnancies, schools, etc right alongside people who are posting that drivel in explicit? I'm no prude but some of that stuff is really out there and crude. Seems like a strange forum to add to a parenting website.

They are nicer and more generous than the folks on the parenting and school forums.

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Anonymous wrote:No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.

Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.

I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Oh, so you go there AND post? Why? So you show them you are superior? You are really a piece of work.

[Anonymous]

Earth to OP: Normal people with kids and without, who have everyday issues, also like to get down and get nasty.

Hope that helps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, does it bother you that people who post on the explicit forum are parents at your kids' elementary school? Because I do, and I am.

yes, kick them off DCUM, and kick them off the earth. Truly American.

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, I don't really know why Jeff includes it. I guess it probably increases his clicks significantly for advertising money. But it seems to detract from the brand of DCUM as a family site, if that has any revenue value. I guess DCUM in general was always not really family friendly at heart, however!

Maybe Jeff is horny?

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What? Normal people are really horny freaks?? Shocked, shocked, I tell you. Collect my rubber goods....

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Anonymous wrote:No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.

Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.

I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Oh, so you go there AND post? Why? So you show them you are superior? You are really a piece of work.

Are you dense? Yes I go on there and yes I post. You are exactly the type I'm talking about who gets all defensive. Probably a cheater.

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Anonymous wrote:No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.

Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.

I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Oh, so you go there AND post? Why? So you show them you are superior? You are really a piece of work.

Not the pp-- but I get her. Cheating and non-vaccinators are my push buttons. I just get drawn in when I see those topics and have to give someone a piece. Have all the kinky sex you want--just don't lie and cheat and NEVER go for a married person. Never.

My girlfriends and I were all well-educated, hot girls from good families and a married dude was not somethkng anyone would EVER morally consider. Plus--no thanks-- for my DH I wanted someone without baggage. I was in my mid-20s and so was he-- I used to have married guys at work hit on me all of the time and always thought they were pathetic--even the hot charming ones.

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Anonymous wrote:I kind of agree, OP.

Me too.

Add one more!

And another!

and me too, this is me on the sofa tonight. I even had to get out my smelling salts

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^^cute selfie!