Does it bother anyone that the same people who post on the explicit forum post here?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?

I'll suggest talking to spouse, counseling, open marriage, divorce instead of the the OP looking for advice on cheating and will get negative comments. Oh well. I find Explicit entertaining and at times helpful but I don't have to agree with everything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty sure the explicit stuff is segregated primarily because of advertising rules, and only partly because it might offend your delicate sensibilities.

I'm not the OP and I'm NOT particularly delicate. That said, that isn't regular explicit stuff. It definitely borders on fetishes and perversion. I agree it's weird to be a part of this site.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?

I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No it doesn't bother me at all. Sex is normal, and I think talking about it or looking at adult content is normal too.

+1

[Anonymous]

I post there and here. I'm a wife, mother, neighbor, employee and friend who is also a sexual being. And yup, I am a bit kinky. We are complex beings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?

I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

I'm on that forum and you are right, I am not in favor of monogamy, for me. But the last thing I want is to steal your husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.

Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.

I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Go ahead and disagree. The reason that forum is more pro cheating is because many posters there are not sexually fulfilled. Not rocket science.

[Anonymous]

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?


I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

Really? It's not about the forum, it's about your husband. I never understand why people get upset with the other woman/man.

[Anonymous]

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?


I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

So why do you care so much if you are not having sex with your husband? Monogamy is a two way street. You must not like the non-explicit forum. Plenty of people there encourage people to cheat/leave/divorce the no sex spouse. You got some issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?


I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

So why do you care so much if you are not having sex with your husband? Monogamy is a two way street. You must not like the non-explicit forum. Plenty of people there encourage people to cheat/leave/divorce the no sex spouse. You got some issue.

U didn't read the post. She is having sex with her spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

No it doesnt bother me at all. Ive read some of the stuff and frankly the people who post there seem a lot more gentle and nicer than the people on the main forums.

DCUM segregates it very well I think. You really have to go looking for it as it doesnt show up otherwise.


Exactly, I find that the explicit forum has more down to earth and gentle people compared to the other forums. People there aren't mean spirited and nasty. It's probably the only forum on DCUM where the majority of the people are nice.


I'll have to disagree with the 'nicer' part. Yes, there's less judging in Explicit but it seems whenever I post something in reply to a post about someone cheating, I'm a 'prude,' 'judgmental,' 'uptight,' etc.......like are you fucking kidding me?? And some even say that because it's Explicit, everyone should be fine with anything. Um no. I'm VERY open minded when it comes to sex but I have a right to disagree with the cheaters on there just as much as anyone else posting.

Do you know anyone who has cheated? How do you show your disapproval?


I agree with pp. the explicit form is completely pro-cheating. Anyone who has been cheated on is called a frigid prude that doesn't put out or have sex with her DH--soooooooo NOT true in my case. Then- the whores start chiming in saying how they find married men on these dating for married websites while their husbands are at work. 'Oh the poor guy doesn't get sex at home--blah, blah'.

It is very judgmental against monogamy. I am a hot fit spouse that has all kinds of frequent sex with spouse. I also being home good $. Most of the women on that site are looking for the next gravy train and if your husband meets that description- he has a target on his back--if he is just going to use her for sex.

So why do you care so much if you are not having sex with your husband? Monogamy is a two way street. You must not like the non-explicit forum. Plenty of people there encourage people to cheat/leave/divorce the no sex spouse. You got some issue.

I have issues with people that go after married people--especially ones with kids. Neither party gets a pass. Both are scumbags--spouse and affair partner.

[Anonymous]

The explicit forum is fantasy, for God's sake. I bet 99% of the people on there have never so much as winked at someone other than their spouse.

It is harmless.

[Anonymous]

I post on both

[Anonymous]

For those who judge...

[Anonymous]

I always figured it was created after having that stuff appear in the other forums. It serves a good purpose by having a place for those kinds of posts so you don't have to see it in the other forums. Those posts are going to exist anyway, so might as well create a space for it so it doesn't pollute everywhere else.