I want to talk shit to the pregnant skank (her boyfriend) my DH had sex with when I was pregnant

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Assuming she is not keeping in contact with your husband, she is probably not thinking about you at all. It seems like she has moved on with her life. It has been two years and she is most likely overjoyed with her first pregnancy. She will probably be a good mother too. If you were to go by your reasoning then your husband would be a terrible father too. Is he?

THIS × 1000

[Anonymous]

OP, save your anger for the one who deserves it. Your DH.

He is the one who cheated on you. He's the one who has a vow with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, save your anger for the one who deserves it. Your DH.

He is the one who cheated on you. He's the one who has a vow with you.

Why are people not getting the fact that the other woman was OP's best friend? This was a huge betrayal from two people.

[Anonymous]

What a skank! But... why are you still keeping tabs on this woman? You wrote that your husband cheated 2 years ago. Drop this b*tch like the hot mess she so clearly is and leave her to her own game.

If you've chosen to stay with your husband, you can talk this out with him (though it's not an emergency, so choose a time conducive to an actual conversation). He gets to deal with the fallout of his actions, and there will continue to be fallout because holy eff did he mess up!

But you don't want to dirty your life with this woman's trashy sh*t. Leave her alone. Not because you're the "bigger person" but because only pigs wallow in that sort of sh*t, and you're not a pig.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should call Jerry Springer? He might be able to help you get everyone in the same room.

[Anonymous]

If this woman had sex with your husband behind your back while you were pregnant, she is not going to care that you think she's a bad person. Go ahead and write the letter if it makes you feel better, but don't send it to her. She doesn't care what you think of her.

[Anonymous]

OP, save your anger for the one who deserves it. Your DH.

He is the one who cheated on you. He's the one who has a vow with you.


Why are people not getting the fact that the other woman was OP's best friend? This was a huge betrayal from two people.

She WAS the OP's best friend, two years ago, when this happened. Surely, the woman is not part of OP's life now. She just needs to ignore the OW and every aspect of her life. I suppose if writing is therapeutic, the OP can buy a journal and rant all she likes. But there is no need to get angry and/or engage with her ex-BFF. Indulging her anger isn't particularly productive, and it's odd that she has such vicious hate for the woman but not her cheating husband.

[Anonymous]

the woman is nothing. your anger is misdirected. there will always be crappy people in this world. the crappy person you need to worry about is your husband.

[Anonymous]

Rainbow Moonfire, is that you? Still with the "sociopath" you blasted? Now you're ranting about how A. can't be happy because you weren't (and aren't).

Make better choices. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I thought that woman was pregnant, but it turns out it was a stupid post trying to fool everyone to think she was pregnant. Wow. Trailer trash. Thank goodness that wasn't the case. She's not even married and doesn't have job. Good thing I didn't send her the 50 things I wanted to say to her.

I feel so dumb. Facebook is stupid showing me what friends like. I need to unfriend some people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rainbow Moonfire, is that you? Still with the "sociopath" you blasted? Now you're ranting about how A. can't be happy because you weren't (and aren't).

Make better choices. Problem solved.

The interesting part about this post is how you recognized the O.W. through the descriptors of "skank," "trash," etc. O.P. must have hit the nail on the head.

[Anonymous]

Why in the world are you FB friends with her? Not healthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rainbow Moonfire, is that you? Still with the "sociopath" you blasted? Now you're ranting about how A. can't be happy because you weren't (and aren't).

Make better choices. Problem solved.

The interesting part about this post is how you recognized the O.W. through the descriptors of "skank," "trash," etc. O.P. must have hit the nail on the head.

Actually, what I recognized was the timeline and the "people who make me have feelings deserve bad labels and public shaming" writing style.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who acted like she did is miserable inside to begin with. Happy, content people don't so those things. Isn't that enough?

This is true. The best revenge is living well and moving on with your life, and not giving her the time of day (and only having good, trustworthy people in your life who have your best interests at heart). She is a rotten person, if the scenario you describe is true, and makes poor choices and is unable to sustain a true, lasting friendship. You would never treat a friend that way. There is no way her life is all roses and sunshine.

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound crazy. Really! Confronting this woman will not make you feel better. It will only cause more drama for your family. Focus on what you need to do to be content and move on, because clearly you haven't. What if she has multiple children? Are you going to confront her each time she is pregnant?

Seriously, you are on the edge of crazy

No, she doesn't sound crazy, on the edge of crazy, or anywhere in the vicinity of crazy. What a ridiculous thing to write.

She sounds like someone who's heard shocking news from her husband. I'm sure it'd be interesting to hear (1) his excuse for withholding this little tidbit of information all this time, and (2) what else is going to come trickling out over time. Because there's always a lot of something else.

OP, if you contact the other woman, you're going to regret it. Anybody who behaves the way she did is sick and depraved, and likely to react to your anger and hurt in ways that will hurt you a lot more. Sounds like she enjoyed fooling you when she was having an affair with your husband. Trust me: she's going to enjoy the chance to hurt you some more.

Another thought: her child is going to suffer horribly for having the terrible misfortune of being her child. Don't be a contributing factor to that poor child's misery.

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