What a Man Finds Interesting in a Woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not harpies or witches. A lot of the snipping back and forth on here is a reflection of social aggression. This is a normal and natural female interaction. I understand you men think we're nuts for seeing this aggression when you can't decipher it. Here it is, typed out for you to read. This goes on everyday between women. Next time your wife bitched that so and so said something horrible, even though it sounds innocuous, think about all the comments you've read here.

Women are into low risk aggression. The risk doesn't get much lower than anonymously saying bitchy things online. The less secure a woman is, the more she'll say aggressive things, but even secure women can say shitty stuff when they're not feeling great.

Aggression is part of normal, human interaction.

Plausibly deniable aggression is cowardly.

It is when you're a dude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not harpies or witches. A lot of the snipping back and forth on here is a reflection of social aggression. This is a normal and natural female interaction. I understand you men think we're nuts for seeing this aggression when you can't decipher it. Here it is, typed out for you to read. This goes on everyday between women. Next time your wife bitched that so and so said something horrible, even though it sounds innocuous, think about all the comments you've read here.

Women are into low risk aggression. The risk doesn't get much lower than anonymously saying bitchy things online. The less secure a woman is, the more she'll say aggressive things, but even secure women can say shitty stuff when they're not feeling great.

Aggression is part of normal, human interaction.

Plausibly deniable aggression is cowardly.

It is when you're a dude.

It is for both genders. Possibly an argument can be made that cowardice is more socially acceptable for women, however.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's not harpies or witches. A lot of the snipping back and forth on here is a reflection of social aggression. This is a normal and natural female interaction. I understand you men think we're nuts for seeing this aggression when you can't decipher it. Here it is, typed out for you to read. This goes on everyday between women. Next time your wife bitched that so and so said something horrible, even though it sounds innocuous, think about all the comments you've read here.

Women are into low risk aggression. The risk doesn't get much lower than anonymously saying bitchy things online. The less secure a woman is, the more she'll say aggressive things, but even secure women can say shitty stuff when they're not feeling great.

Aggression is part of normal, human interaction.

Mean girls are not attractive.

[Anonymous]

I like women that live their lives like they don't care what others have to say. They are bold in a non-cunty kind of way. I like women with a sense of humor. Women that keep themselves clean and not skanky. Women that don't smoke or drink in excess. Women that have a moral compass. Basically, just like my wife!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like women that live their lives like they don't care what others have to say. They are bold in a non-cunty kind of way. I like women with a sense of humor. Women that keep themselves clean and not skanky. Women that don't smoke or drink in excess. Women that have a moral compass. Basically, just like my wife!

Southern Blonde Christian

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's not harpies or witches. A lot of the snipping back and forth on here is a reflection of social aggression. This is a normal and natural female interaction. I understand you men think we're nuts for seeing this aggression when you can't decipher it. Here it is, typed out for you to read. This goes on everyday between women. Next time your wife bitched that so and so said something horrible, even though it sounds innocuous, think about all the comments you've read here.

Women are into low risk aggression. The risk doesn't get much lower than anonymously saying bitchy things online. The less secure a woman is, the more she'll say aggressive things, but even secure women can say shitty stuff when they're not feeling great.

Aggression is part of normal, human interaction.

Mean girls are not attractive.

Neither are mean men. That doesn't change the fact that there's competition for a mate.

[Anonymous]

See? The mean girl PP is an example of the "social aggression" mentioned earlier. I am glad to be a man when I see all the petty shit women waste time and emotional energy on. It is so unhealthy. Get thee to a therapist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like women that live their lives like they don't care what others have to say. They are bold in a non-cunty kind of way. I like women with a sense of humor. Women that keep themselves clean and not skanky. Women that don't smoke or drink in excess. Women that have a moral compass. Basically, just like my wife!

Southern Blonde Christian

No, she's actually a Northern Brunette Christian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:See? The mean girl PP is an example of the "social aggression" mentioned earlier. I am glad to be a man when I see all the petty shit women waste time and emotional energy on. It is so unhealthy. Get thee to a therapist.

Who's a mean girl?

I think men getting into a fist fight is petty and a waste of energy, but men will still go to blows over competition for status. It less of an issue for older men, just like social aggression is more of an issue for younger women.

[Anonymous]

RHinVA wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Again, what a bunch of harpies and angry women!

This guy wrote a thoughtful post about what he likes. It WAS NOT ALL ABOUT HIM! Do you not have basic reading comprehension skills or are you already too many glasses into your chardonnay?!

Although I think he said "I do mind skinny women" when I think he meant to say he did not mind them! He likes any woman skinny or with curves, who will acknowledge him as he will her.

He wants to be seduced as much as he wants to seduce the woman. He wants to be complimented as much as his wife expects to be complimented.

Basically my take away from this guy's post is that he expects a PARTNERSHIP with his wife and he doesn't want to worship some nagging, insecure, spoiled witch.

He wants to be able to run off and do spontaneous things with his wife.

He wants to have an equal relationship with someone he can grow old with after the kids have left the nest.

My God, you women are terrible.

OP, if I have mis-interpereted this, please correct me if I am wrong.

OP here. Yes, you do have it. Thank you.

Wait, is the Op married?

My takeaway was he's single, he drinks beer, he likes a curvy woman and he wants good sex. Did I miss something?

He wants his ego stroked.