What a Man Finds Interesting in a Woman

[Anonymous]

20:59 make sure there is no gut hanging over the penis and I bet you're more likely to get it stroked. Women don't like guts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:20:59 make sure there is no gut hanging over the penis and I bet you're more likely to get it stroked. Women don't like guts.

A woman's like for a gut is proportional to the money and status the man whose penis is the target of said stroking.

Enough money and status and a woman won't care about how much gut she has to push out of the way to stroke the cock.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have been perusing this site for some time, and the kind of things that women put out there that they THINK men find attractive just makes me want to pop the top of my favorite American lager and settle in for another evening of good laughs. There seems to be a predominant belief here that a smart woman - Ivy educated - who is skinny, a professional, i.e. a lawyer or some such office jockey type job, is intellectually curious, likes going to art galleries, cooking organic meals, etc. is just the type of woman your average red blooded American male is looking for. I am here to disabuse of this notion.

I do not mind smart women. I do mind skinny women. I do not mind women with curves - actually I appreciate them. I don't care where you went to school, whether you've back packed around Europe or support a village in the Andes, are vegan and do yoga. What I am interested in is a woman who takes an interest in me. I want a woman with a sense of humor - who can make me laugh and can laugh at herself. I want a woman who can flirt and will pursue me, even when we are in a LTR. Nothing turns me off more than a woman who will not make the effort to get me into bed. Of course, I will take the lead sometimes, but I want to be seduced. I enjoy the game. I want a woman who takes a genuine interest in the things I enjoy and wants to spend time with me doing them. I would likewise want to spend time with her in some of her pursuits. I want a woman who will tell me at the end of the day she is happy to see me, and not someone who is going to hand me a "honey-do" list the minute I walk in the door. I want a woman who will sometimes say "fuck it," and throw best laid plans to the wind and take on something adventurous, whether that is a new bedroom thing, a new cuisine, a new vacation joint or a career change and and a cross country move. I want a woman who is a committed, though not overbearing, mother, i.e. who realizes the children are only here for 18 years so you better keep the spark alive in our relationship or when they are gone I will be too. These are many of the attributes I find attractive in a woman - combined with a reasonable physical attractiveness. There you have it, the truth right from the horses mouth. Now, you all know what you need to change to catch a good man.

I could only read this much of your post and then I had to stop.

Seriously, are you really using a sampling of lonely bitter unsexed internet trolls as your sample of local DC women? NOTHING on here is real life, except maybe the explicit forum.

[Anonymous]

"OP, how old are you, and have you ever been married?

From the nature of OP's concerns, I'm going to guess mid-30s with a child or children in the 0-5 range."

No way. He's 30s, never married, single, and a bit of a narcissus.

[Anonymous]

Narcissist?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Narcissist?

I believe a narcissus is a Narcissist with wings. Sprang out of Medusa's mirror when Perseus cut her head off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Narcissist?

I believe a narcissus is a Narcissist with wings. Sprang out of Medusa's mirror when Perseus cut her head off.

Haha!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is true for women too, if you reverse the equation.

+1000

Very true for me.
-DW

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"OP, how old are you, and have you ever been married?

From the nature of OP's concerns, I'm going to guess mid-30s with a child or children in the 0-5 range."

No way. He's 30s, never married, single, and a bit of a narcissus.

Really? I thought it sounded 25 at the oldest.

[Anonymous]

48, divorced with children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:20:59 make sure there is no gut hanging over the penis and I bet you're more likely to get it stroked. Women don't like guts.

A woman's like for a gut is proportional to the money and status the man whose penis is the target of said stroking.

Enough money and status and a woman won't care about how much gut she has to push out of the way to stroke the cock.

False.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Again, what a bunch of harpies and angry women!

This guy wrote a thoughtful post about what he likes. It WAS NOT ALL ABOUT HIM! Do you not have basic reading comprehension skills or are you already too many glasses into your chardonnay?!

Although I think he said "I do mind skinny women" when I think he meant to say he did not mind them! He likes any woman skinny or with curves, who will acknowledge him as he will her.

He wants to be seduced as much as he wants to seduce the woman. He wants to be complimented as much as his wife expects to be complimented.

Basically my take away from this guy's post is that he expects a PARTNERSHIP with his wife and he doesn't want to worship some nagging, insecure, spoiled witch.

He wants to be able to run off and do spontaneous things with his wife.

He wants to have an equal relationship with someone he can grow old with after the kids have left the nest.

My God, you women are terrible.

OP, if I have mis-interpereted this, please correct me if I am wrong.

OP here. Yes, you do have it. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

It's not harpies or witches. A lot of the snipping back and forth on here is a reflection of social aggression. This is a normal and natural female interaction. I understand you men think we're nuts for seeing this aggression when you can't decipher it. Here it is, typed out for you to read. This goes on everyday between women. Next time your wife bitched that so and so said something horrible, even though it sounds innocuous, think about all the comments you've read here.

Women are into low risk aggression. The risk doesn't get much lower than anonymously saying bitchy things online. The less secure a woman is, the more she'll say aggressive things, but even secure women can say shitty stuff when they're not feeling great.

Aggression is part of normal, human interaction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's not harpies or witches. A lot of the snipping back and forth on here is a reflection of social aggression. This is a normal and natural female interaction. I understand you men think we're nuts for seeing this aggression when you can't decipher it. Here it is, typed out for you to read. This goes on everyday between women. Next time your wife bitched that so and so said something horrible, even though it sounds innocuous, think about all the comments you've read here.

Women are into low risk aggression. The risk doesn't get much lower than anonymously saying bitchy things online. The less secure a woman is, the more she'll say aggressive things, but even secure women can say shitty stuff when they're not feeling great.

Aggression is part of normal, human interaction.

Plausibly deniable aggression is cowardly.

[Anonymous]

The silliest girls on OkCupid are ones that list their Ivy alma mater on their profile - essentially signalling how central it is their identity.

Not attractive.