"Wow, your husband is so handsome!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She was probably just taken aback that you were not only checking out her husband but also verbal about it to her. I probably wouldn't know what to say in that situation either. Most people are usually more discreet when they are checking out a married person and the spouse is right there.

Lol!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She was probably just taken aback that you were not only checking out her husband but also verbal about it to her. I probably wouldn't know what to say in that situation either. Most people are usually more discreet when they are checking out a married person and the spouse is right there.

Exactly. The fact that she said indicates surprise, which is kind of rude.

[Anonymous]

I think it is weird to say that OP. Think it, fine. But say it? Maybe he's a player! Maybe women hit on him all the time.

[Anonymous]

My guess is he has cheated on her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My guess is he has cheated on her.

Yes, my guess several times.

[Anonymous]

Was it like this?

[Anonymous]

Or they've dealt with a woman stalker type. Years ago I had to deal with a couple of girls who had it in their head my boyfriend was *meant* to be with her and he just didn't know it yet. How this happened to me twice with two different guys and two different "friends" I don't know but it can be pretty stressful depending on how delusional/obsessed she is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Was it like this?

I am the 'eye candy' poster and that is my DH's body at 42. He has a very handsome face too--better than that guy's.

I have always been very hot myself---but I will say when women are in their 40s, 50s, 60s--even if they are beautiful it's not like men that retain that sex appeal to much older ages. I have creeping self-esteem issues about aging that were never there in my youth when I went toe-to-toe with him.

I agree with the 'tiresome' post. We've been married for 17 years now. Yes- I know he's hot. There are so many bored housewives married to very unattractive men at our school--that do wear those footie shoes...so depending on my mood--I'm either proud, find it funny, or sometimes suspicious when it is coming from a whorish mom. I generally just brush it off.

It is weird to be told that your husband is the talk of the entire PTA. It's also weird to always be told by people that we are the 'perfect swininging couple' because usually one partner is not attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or they've dealt with a woman stalker type. Years ago I had to deal with a couple of girls who had it in their head my boyfriend was *meant* to be with her and he just didn't know it yet. How this happened to me twice with two different guys and two different "friends" I don't know but it can be pretty stressful depending on how delusional/obsessed she is.

+100

I have also had girls in the past befriend me...and then get drunk and when I go to the bathroom tell my man 'you could do so much better than her--you should be with me. and hit on him ruthlessly'. Once that happens--out of the picture to that 'friend'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My guess is he has cheated on her.

Yes, my guess several times.

Jealous. That's what starts these rumors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was it like this?

I am the 'eye candy' poster and that is my DH's body at 42. He has a very handsome face too--better than that guy's.

I have always been very hot myself---but I will say when women are in their 40s, 50s, 60s--even if they are beautiful it's not like men that retain that sex appeal to much older ages. I have creeping self-esteem issues about aging that were never there in my youth when I went toe-to-toe with him.

I agree with the 'tiresome' post. We've been married for 17 years now. Yes- I know he's hot. There are so many bored housewives married to very unattractive men at our school--that do wear those footie shoes...so depending on my mood--I'm either proud, find it funny, or sometimes suspicious when it is coming from a whorish mom. I generally just brush it off.

It is weird to be told that your husband is the talk of the entire PTA. It's also weird to always be told by people that we are the 'perfect swininging couple' because usually one partner is not attractive.

LOL!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am the 'eye candy' poster and that is my DH's body at 42. He has a very handsome face too--better than that guy's.

I have always been very hot myself---but I will say when women are in their 40s, 50s, 60s--even if they are beautiful it's not like men that retain that sex appeal to much older ages. I have creeping self-esteem issues about aging that were never there in my youth when I went toe-to-toe with him.

I agree with the 'tiresome' post. We've been married for 17 years now. Yes- I know he's hot. There are so many bored housewives married to very unattractive men at our school--that do wear those footie shoes...so depending on my mood--I'm either proud, find it funny, or sometimes suspicious when it is coming from a whorish mom. I generally just brush it off.

It is weird to be told that your husband is the talk of the entire PTA. It's also weird to always be told by people that we are the 'perfect swininging couple' because usually one partner not attractive.

I am always amazed at some of the comments women make. You label others "whorish" and call all them "bored housewives married to very unattractive men." (I don't understand the "footie" comment.) Yet you also call yourself hot.

I wonder if you're the issue. I bet these "whorish or bored housewives" are doing it just to get back at you - knowing exactly what your insecure spots are.

Quite honestly, I'm embarrassed by women like you. You make the rest of us "bored housewives married to very unattractive men" look really bad. I'll take the "footie shoes" over your hot looks any old day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Was it like this?

I am the 'eye candy' poster and that is my DH's body at 42. He has a very handsome face too--better than that guy's.

I have always been very hot myself---but I will say when women are in their 40s, 50s, 60s--even if they are beautiful it's not like men that retain that sex appeal to much older ages. I have creeping self-esteem issues about aging that were never there in my youth when I went toe-to-toe with him.

I agree with the 'tiresome' post. We've been married for 17 years now. Yes- I know he's hot. There are so many bored housewives married to very unattractive men at our school--that do wear those footie shoes...so depending on my mood--I'm either proud, find it funny, or sometimes suspicious when it is coming from a whorish mom. I generally just brush it off.

It is weird to be told that your husband is the talk of the entire PTA. It's also weird to always be told by people that we are the 'perfect swininging couple' because usually one partner is not attractive.

You are oddly competitive with your husband. I'd love to see a head to toe picture of you. I can picture it now!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a creepy thing to say

+100

I'm married to the 'eye candy' of our elementary school. The shit people say and even worse the shit people tell me they say when I'm not around.

His hair is better than the rest of him, personality included. Don't worry too much. He's too pretty for most of us. Or haven't you noticed??!!

[Anonymous]

I find that usually it is the "handsome" husband who is looking at other women, rather than other women having designs on the "handsome" men.

Once a person is married, they can only be a good prospect for a no-strings attached affair. It is not as if the "handsome" man will leave his wife to marry someone else.

I find insecure wives of handsome men most tiring. No one wants your DH to father their children. Chill!