"Wow, your husband is so handsome!"

[Anonymous]

Out*

[Anonymous]

I've had people say exactly that to me several times. I cannot imagine taking it as anything other than a compliment. Don't worry about it!

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe it came off as if you were surprised that someone like her would have a handsome husband.

+10000

I've seen it. I just have not said it out loud

Actually, the guy had great hair, but was about 5' tall. So yeah, the hair was the best part. But some people are vain no matter what. Or over compensating

[Anonymous]

You have to jump on that guy...his wife is weak. Next time you see her ask about her husband...that will get her going

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Anonymous wrote:She did you a favor. There's a ton of crazy insecure bitches out there. She just rapidly self identified.

My DH is in shape and hot. I get it all the time, plus women acting stupid and falling all over him. It doesn't bother me. I actually find it hot.

How long have you been married? It's gets tiresome as time goes on. Nothing to do with insecurity.

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a creepy thing to say

+100

I'm married to the 'eye candy' of our elementary school. The shit people say and even worse the shit people tell me they say when I'm not around.

This!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like a creepy thing to say

+100

I'm married to the 'eye candy' of our elementary school. The shit people say and even worse the shit people tell me they say when I'm not around.

Your husband wears those toe shoes though...

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She has issues - either is very insecure about her own looks, or there's some sort of marital history you accidently stumbled into.

I still do remember though a similar encounter I had with a grad school advisor when I introduced her to my then-boyfriend, now-husband. She made a similar comment about how handsome he is, but the way she said it with such surprise definitely made me wonder what she thought about me to be so shocked I was together with him. It was more amusing than anything else, and I certainly agree he's a handsome one, but yeah, it came off weird.

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i think it's fine. doesn't sounds like she has much of a sense of humor. if someone had said it to me about my husband, i'd laugh say "i know!"

[Anonymous]

My DH is pretty hot and I get comments like this all the time. I'm not sure what to say in response and it's always pretty awkward. I usually end up with "thanks, he's a great guy," but sometimes I change the subject quick or say something awkward. I wouldn't look too much into her reply.

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Anonymous wrote:No, there's nothing wrong with what you said, OP. Maybe she's PMSing and took it the wrong way. But in and of itself there's nothing wrong with your compliment.

People have said that to me. I smile and say "Thank you; he's as smart as he is pretty," and then the other person and I always laugh.

I like this answer, but I'm not that quick! (I'm the PP who said it's good to start learning to keep such knee-jerk observations to yourself.)

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Anonymous wrote:My DH is pretty hot and I get comments like this all the time. I'm not sure what to say in response and it's always pretty awkward. I usually end up with "thanks, he's a great guy," but sometimes I change the subject quick or say something awkward. I wouldn't look too much into her reply.

And he has great taste in women, too.
Really? I hadn't noticed. I'll have to look again. (and smile)
He's also very nice and makes me happy. A trifecta!
A special for you, I won't charge you extra for a second look. (wink)
Thank you. We've worked very hard to perfect "the look."

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with what you said. She has issues. People say it to me all the time. My husband is more handsome than I am pretty if that makes sense. I just take it as a compliment.

[Anonymous]

She was probably just taken aback that you were not only checking out her husband but also verbal about it to her. I probably wouldn't know what to say in that situation either. Most people are usually more discreet when they are checking out a married person and the spouse is right there.

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Anonymous wrote:She should have just laughed and said "Thanks, I'm a lucky woman!" Don't feel bad.

+1. You don't know whether they have a struggling marriage, or he's cheating or she is just an incredibly insecure person. Lots of things that might not cause a good reaction.

My DH is very good looking. I think so, and have been told so by both women and men. I smile, say thanks and move on.