I don't know if I should invite exes to our wedding

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:guy here - NO WAY. you haven't told him that you slept with the guys he thinks are only friends. and you can't tell him now - it's way to late to come clean and it will not come off (to him) good at all.

Just invite them and say nothing.

nothing like starting a new life with a spouse blind to deception...and deceived at the goddamn wedding no less!

That's why I'm feeling really bad. I don't want deception at the wedding. It's just that early on when we discussed about our relationships and exes I just didn't mention guys who were not really relationships. I figured out that my fiance wasn't as active as I was before we met. He's a traditional man which is something I love about him because he treats better than anyone before him. He's also a bit sensitive though about what I did tell him so I figured why complicate things by telling even more.

Then don't tell him. You should have been honest from the start, but that ship has sailed, and it doesn't sound line it will go over well anyway. You don't have to invite these guys to your wedding, you can just say there are others you are closer to...or invite them and don't say anything. At this point it's ancient history, right?

[Anonymous]

Nothing makes a guy feel better than being surrounded by the gaggle of guys that your bride has banged. I would revoke your white dress. Would you like it if he invited his pack of hotties that have tongued him?

[Anonymous]

In his mid he will think of each ex banging you and it won't be hot.

[Anonymous]

If you have them anal make sure you give your dh equal access

[Anonymous]

"Fiance, I don't think we'll be inviting Josh and Frank to the wedding. I did date Josh briefly back in aught-six and I had a crush on Frank long before I met you and it just feels odd to me to have them at our wedding. It seems silly that it's bothering me now after all this time, but I want the focus of our to be on our future."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing makes a guy feel better than being surrounded by the gaggle of guys that your bride has banged. I would revoke your white dress. Would you like it if he invited his pack of hotties that have tongued him?

What's funny is she specifically stated in her OP that she would not be comfortable with him inviting his Exes.