Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

Do you understand how disgusting you and your "man" are? Do you have a moral compass? Do you care that you are helping him break vows and deceive people?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

Not to me. He was engaged when we met.

What will you do when he tires of his "toy" and finds a shiny new one? You do realize that he could end this set up abruptly and without notice, don't you?

Is being pampered so important to you that you are willing to give up your own career/possible marriage/kids to this man who really has no obligation to you whatsoever?

I will deal. I know it will end some day. Marriage and kids are not the be-all, end-all for me. I could see enjoying being married but do not aspire to have kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Homewrecker.

You have no way of knowing that. Maybe this situation is sustaining the marriage?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If he weren't married, I'd say kudos to you.

Being a mistress makes this a bit slimier. No girl power chant for you.

Why the judgement? Why can't 2 people be free to love the way they want? And who are you to judge?

But she says she doesn't love the guy. Just the lifestyle. So, basically, it's like prostitution with just the one guy, right?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Homewrecker.

You have no way of knowing that. Maybe this situation is sustaining the marriage?

lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How long has this arrangement been going on for?

Four years.

[Anonymous]

How did you meet?

Are the things that he pays for (assume apartment and maybe car?) in your name or his?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does he find the time to "keep" you and have his family and work?

He travels a lot for his work. Sometimes he takes me with him, and sometimes he tacks on an extra night or two instead and spends that time with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you understand how disgusting you and your "man" are? Do you have a moral compass? Do you care that you are helping him break vows and deceive people?

Keep your tea-bagging judgemental attitude to yourself. MYOB.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does his wife not notice the loss of $$ that he uses for your life and upkeep?

My understanding is that she doesn't handle the money, so it's not a huge issue. She handles the children, house and pets. He handles the houses, cars and money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Homewrecker.

You have no way of knowing that. Maybe this situation is sustaining the marriage?

oh you young naive girl....

[Anonymous]

Is his wife a bitch or extremely fat or crazy or an addict or asexual? Or is she basically normal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If he weren't married, I'd say kudos to you.

Being a mistress makes this a bit slimier. No girl power chant for you.

Why the judgement? Why can't 2 people be free to love the way they want? And who are you to judge?

But she says she doesn't love the guy. Just the lifestyle. So, basically, it's like prostitution with just the one guy, right?

By your right wing definition, SAHM = prostitute. Drop it; you don't want to go there.

[Anonymous]

How old are his kids?

Does his friends know about you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

Not to me. He was engaged when we met.

Wives are not "kept women".

A non-working wife with no children is a "kept woman" just as a non-working husband with no children is a "kept man".

The only difference is that the arrangement is sanctioned by law.