Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

[Anonymous]

Do you get to go out with him or is it just him visiting you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he have children? Do you not want children?

I've never wanted children. He has two children.

Yet. But you are only 24.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And how much $$ does he earn per year?

And what is his ethnicity?

He's also a white American. I have never asked what he earns per year. My guess is mid to high six figures?

[Anonymous]

If he weren't married, I'd say kudos to you.

Being a mistress makes this a bit slimier. No girl power chant for you.

[Anonymous]

What if you meet the love or your life tomorrow?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he weren't married, I'd say kudos to you.

Being a mistress makes this a bit slimier. No girl power chant for you.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have a personality disorder? Why don't you want your own relationship?

I've never been diagnosed with one or had anyone hint that I have one.
This is working for us.

[Anonymous]

Homewrecker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And how much $$ does he earn per year?

And what is his ethnicity?

He's also a white American. I have never asked what he earns per year. My guess is mid to high six figures?

Oh, that's not enough that he ought to be taking it away from his kids (maybe wife is a bitch).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How does his wife not notice the loss of $$ that he uses for your life and upkeep?

How would OP know this?

[Anonymous]

So what do you...well, DO all day? Your friends are working or in grad school - you spend a couple of hours at the gym? Do you read, or network , or heck, what do you DO?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you?

How long are you going to do this for?

Is your own personal life and development on hold for this arrangement?

I am 24. I'll do this until it's not working for one of us anymore. I don't really feel like my life is on hold. I suppose my career is, but so many of my friends are in grad school or have boomeranged back to their parents that I don't really feel it.

You are 24 and how old is he?

How did you meet?

He is in his late 30's. We met when I was 19, in college. He is friends with a professor I had - he was invited to give a talk to our class.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he weren't married, I'd say kudos to you.

Being a mistress makes this a bit slimier. No girl power chant for you.

Why the judgement? Why can't 2 people be free to love the way they want? And who are you to judge?

[Anonymous]

You're only 24 and you have a degree. How long his this man "kept" you like this? Did you quit your job to be available to him? If he's working, what prevents you from working? Who is paying for your health insurance?

[Anonymous]

Isn't your family curious about how you are supporting yourself financially? Don't your parents ever ask you why you aren't looking for a job?