friends & family in absentia: the aftermath

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok, folks. Let's end this thread. It's turning into the one thing I didn't: about the friends and how I feel about them.

its not about them or me. Its about how I should approach my husband. Throw him a party myself? Yes, I have thought of that. Let me see invite those friends.....who.....cant.....go..... See my point? Its not about me, its about how I can deal with my DH.

WHY CAN'T YOU JUST ASK HIM WHAT HE WANTS TO DO TO CELEBRATE/REMEMBER??

My god, why is this so complicated?