For those in long term relationships. Do you still kiss?

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Anonymous wrote:We've been married for almost 16 years and together for about 20. DW is always on me about kissing her. We peck all of the time. I kiss her before I leave the house. Every time our children see us kiss they let out sounds like it's hurting them. We have not French-kissed in a very long time. I remember when we first met it was constant. I'm not sure what made it taper off, but I'm no longer in the mood for it. She still wants it. She's always telling me that she desires more passion. It's not that I don't love her, because I really do love her more than I can explain.

This is absolutely normal. Mother Nature runs the show and after 5 years Mother Nature thinks you have had children or you aren't going to have children. Sex is not for happiness or pleasure in reality. Mother Nature uses it to procreate and doesn't care about whatever inaccurate fantasies people have dreamed up in their heads regarding their feelings or satisfaction. In fact.. The hormones for animal sex and the hormones for deep love and family love don't get along well in the brain. They fight each other. That's why the man can put his wife/children's mother on a pedestal and wants animal sex with the AP. The way to trick the mind into keeping the passion is to make the sex really dirty (getting a boob job would be among the tamer possibilities) to trick the mind into thinking "hey this is something new!". People need to know these facts because it would save a lot of marriages.

Plus 1.

This is the most normal and common scenario. There are outliers obviously .. But people for the most part need to be made highly aware of this so they don't get emotionally worn out and can work together.

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Anonymous wrote:PP here, by the way DH and I have only been married two years.. in our early 20s =/

What inspired you to contribute to this thread? No offense, but you have nothing of value to offer. Also, I personally think anyone who marries in their early 20s is a complete fool.

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DH here. We kiss 4-5 times a day but almost never French except with sex. Personally I would prefer a passionate kiss at least once a day.

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Anonymous wrote:married 7 - I hate kissing my wife or anyone else. It's gross. would you have your husband spit on a plate and you lick it up? no? Then why would you lick the spit right out of his mouth?

Men do not like kissing ever - we only do it hoping it makes your pants fall off. Actually, we do it because it shuts you up and keeps you happy for a bit.

Absolutely not true. My DH loves kissing. Way more than I do. I could totally never french kiss him again. He's into it.

Do you blow him, or is that too gross too? Poor guy

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't men like to kiss their wives?

Because it’s hard to kiss the lips at night that chew your ass all day.

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Yes we do, and not just during sex. My kids get grossed out a lot because we kiss often in front of them (not with tongues). Married 13 years.

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I like making out with my wife, during sex, not during sex, whenever. She feels the same.

That said, we often go weeks without a French kiss that's not during foreplay or sex.

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Anonymous wrote:Married 9 years. I kiss my husband at least 3 or 4 times a day. We greet each other and say goodbye with a kiss - not French kissing but on the lips. More passionate kissing is generally foreplay.

Same here, in our 25th year of marriage

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Married 20 years and we only kiss during sex. However, I do grab her boobs and dry hump her several times a day.

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Anonymous wrote:Married 20 years and we only kiss during sex. However, I do grab her boobs and dry hump her several times a day.

I'm sure that turns her on. /s

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Yes. I really love just a surprise French kiss in the kitchen or whatever. It sounds cheesy but I truly feel it keeps us connected.

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Anonymous wrote:Together 13 years. We peck all the time, but hardly ever a French kiss. DH doesn't like it. He used to when we first met. I might not even get a kiss during sex. After I'll get a peck.

Together 17 years, married 13. When we first met, lots of French kissing. I loved it and still do except we don't anymore. Lots of kissing during sex, often while hands are busy elsewhere.

She tastes SO good!!

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Yes we kiss a lot during the day. From quick pecs on the cheeks or lips to longer ones. And considering DH is a big kiss initiator , I'm not to worried that he finds it gross or is just doing it to shut me up lol

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Anonymous wrote:Married 20 years and we only kiss during sex. However, I do grab her boobs and dry hump her several times a day.

I'm sure that turns her on. /s

Ha I'm a DW and I actually love it when DH does stuff like this!

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I love kissing her lips-both sets!!