For those in long term relationships. Do you still kiss?

Anonymous
I've been married 12yrs. I have a great sexual relationship with my DH. But we dont kiss that often. Only during sex and the n not every time. Is this within the spectrum of normal?

Do you kiss your SO? On the cheek, French, or somewhere in between? Just curious...
Anonymous
Married 9 years. I kiss my husband at least 3 or 4 times a day. We greet each other and say goodbye with a kiss - not French kissing but on the lips. More passionate kissing is generally foreplay.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Married 9 years. I kiss my husband at least 3 or 4 times a day. We greet each other and say goodbye with a kiss - not French kissing but on the lips. More passionate kissing is generally foreplay.


This is us, but we've been married 15 years.
Anonymous
OP here. I will consider this. We have little ones and I think kissing will up the passion in our relationship outside the bedroom. I kiss him more and see what happens. Thanks
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Married 9 years. I kiss my husband at least 3 or 4 times a day. We greet each other and say goodbye with a kiss - not French kissing but on the lips. More passionate kissing is generally foreplay.


This is us, but we've been married 15 years.


+1

Married 8 years. My husband and I "smooch" kiss all the time -- hello, goodbye, goodnight. I would say half a dozen times a day. But rarely passionate kisses anymore. It's our way of touching base.

I have to say we are a very touchy-feely family and we also kiss and hug our kids a lot too.
Anonymous
Married almost 7 years and yes, we kiss several times a day. But even during sex it is rarely with passion anymore. I miss those really insistent, hands running through your hair kisses, but I don't want DH to fake that. I want him to really feel it. Sigh. Maybe it will come back once we don't have little kids anymore?
Anonymous
Together 13 years. We peck all the time, but hardly ever a French kiss. DH doesn't like it. He used to when we first met. I might not even get a kiss during sex. After I'll get a peck.
Anonymous
We've been married 17 years, and we do kiss frequently - several times a day. Usually just a simple peck unless we're in the bedroom. But sometimes, a lingering kiss in the kitchen just to make the kids say "ewww!"
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Married 9 years. I kiss my husband at least 3 or 4 times a day. We greet each other and say goodbye with a kiss - not French kissing but on the lips. More passionate kissing is generally foreplay.


This is us, but we've been married 15 years.


Same here. Together 21.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Together 13 years. We peck all the time, but hardly ever a French kiss. DH doesn't like it. He used to when we first met. I might not even get a kiss during sex. After I'll get a peck.


I am in this category with this DH. I am a SAHM and the constant kissing, grabbing, holding, soothing from the little ones leaves me tapped out. More kissing at the end of the day makes me feel claustrophobic, especially a tongue in my mouth. I used to love kissing and now I have zero libido unless it's in fantasy land where no one actually touches me.
Anonymous
married 7 - I hate kissing my wife or anyone else. It's gross. would you have your husband spit on a plate and you lick it up? no? Then why would you lick the spit right out of his mouth?

Men do not like kissing ever - we only do it hoping it makes your pants fall off. Actually, we do it because it shuts you up and keeps you happy for a bit.
Anonymous
Typical hello and goodbye and goodnight during the day. Lots of heavy making out during sex.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:married 7 - I hate kissing my wife or anyone else. It's gross. would you have your husband spit on a plate and you lick it up? no? Then why would you lick the spit right out of his mouth?

Men do not like kissing ever - we only do it hoping it makes your pants fall off. Actually, we do it because it shuts you up and keeps you happy for a bit.


You sound like a real peach. Get some help for those raging issues you have going on there. If you don't, you'll deserve your inevitable divorce.
Anonymous
Yes, kissing is so easy - I think we kiss (several time a day) a lot more than we have sex.
Anonymous
Don't like kissing anymore, but give pecks once or twice a day. Really just going through the motions. Sad.
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