Highlighted text^^exactly PP. This is the very dangerous subtext of this kind of act. Women need to be very clear that this is what they are doing when they engage in this kind of relationship. They kid themselves that they are exerting some kind of "power". But they are diminishing all women by doing such things. Broadwell got caught in her subject's awesome narrative--Petraeus is a GOD among mortals as a military strategist; it is intoxicating to be around any guy with that much power. She lost her shit completely as this CIA woman threatened her access to the general. She threw all reason out the window and resolved to take everyone, him included down in flames. What a nightmare. What a tragedy for the families effected. I hope that they can all come back from this. |
According to this article, the other person is not CIA and not his wife: http://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/fbi-probe-of-petraeus-triggered-by-e-mail-threats-from-biographer-officials-say/2012/11/10/d2fc52de-2b68-11e2-bab2-eda299503684_print.html |
I think when the first poster excepted the scandal, she meant all the actions that led to the scandal, not just the getting caught part. As a feminist, the whole thing makes me angry because Paula Broadwell's background and resume should make women proud of her accomplishments. Her bio is quite extraordinary. Now her achievements are clouded by her craziness and the suggestion that she had got access to DP because of sex. |
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I think we are crazy to think someones marriage is our business. Petraus resigned and put having an affair as a reason.
End of story |
Yes, good point. I hope we've made enough progress so that this'll be just a temporary blip. The real harm is the damage to the reputation of a man who served his country brilliantly, by many accounts, and the two families, but there's always collateral damage of the kind you mention. |
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So why does an FBI whistleblower go to a member of Congress about his/her concerns? Because of how the FBI is handling (or not handling it)? Was this person worried that the FBI or the administration had known for awhile what was going on but allowing him to stay on as director?
I think a better title of this thread would be "the plot sickens" |
I am a man married to a very successful woman and sorry, she does absolutely nothing for me-a real cold character. |
| If the Broadwell's issue a statement saying that they are in counseling and working on their marriage, I will throw up. That is such a cliche. I feel badly for the husband and kids. But he will probably receive a lot of support from people if he is a decent guy. I would think that Patraeus's wife either knew about this or other indiscretions and doesn't give a crap. She probably figures that she has a good career of her own and with two children, albeit already grown up, why rock the boat? |
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As a feminist, the whole thing makes me angry because Paula Broadwell's background and resume should make women proud of her accomplishments. Her bio is quite extraordinary. Now her achievements are clouded by her craziness and the suggestion that she had got access to DP because of sex. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>. "Suggestion" that she got acces to DP because of sex? Isn't more than just a suggestion now? Isn't it a fact? . |
Yes. In truth, her achievements are more than clouded. They mean almost nothing. All that she worked for meaningless by age 40. |
In her interview with J. Stewart, she displays an intensity, coldness, self-preservation, and reserve that's very unappealing to many people. |
+1 |
| She seems like a really smart, cold, unhinged Glenn Close type of character who is extremely impressed with herself -- her body, her brain, her courage, yada yada yada. I can't help but feeling more than a little schadenfreudy over this. I'd love to read her threatening e-mails -- she probably borrowed from Stephen King instead of Norman Vincent Peale, who she used to quote in her tweets. |
I think the bolded text is a selfish and sweeping statement. The fact that you may or may not be in love with someone means nothing, because you are wronging an entire generation of women older than you by taking away one of their eligible men..." Whatever.
The statements above are really just first wave, woman-on-woman bashing. Really we should all know better than to criticize or call each other out for personal life choices. |
I don't think the age difference should matter, but having an affair with a married person (in this case each is married and has children) should not be a personal life choice. Yes, people should be criticized for selfishly putting their own desires, needs--whatever you want to call it--without consideration of the affect on their families. |