How many partners did you have before you married?

[Anonymous]

What about # lovers post-marriage?

[Anonymous]

35 counting husband. none after him.

[Anonymous]

300

[Anonymous]

10-12 (can't remember exactly off-hand & don't want to go through the list). I met DH in 2000, I was 29. None since him (although in all honesty, not for lack of desire). He's definitely had (a lot) more than me. It bothered me in the beginning, but now I could care less. Although my number isn't super low, I did get a bit caught up in the "nice girls don't do that" and didn't have sex with some people in hindsight I wish I did have. Of course it doesn't matter now ... but it would have been fun and now that I'm older I think who cares about what 'nice girls' do?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:300

hope you are kidding

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:300

hope you are kidding

Who gives a crap if its 3, 30 or 300? what's it got to do with you anyway? (not trying to be bitchy, but seriously - why would you care? and i'm not PP)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:300

hope you are kidding

Who gives a crap if its 3, 30 or 300? what's it got to do with you anyway? (not trying to be bitchy, but seriously - why would you care? and i'm not PP)

Ditto. I don't know how one would have the time, but if they did, who cares? Now, what SHOULD be of concern to myself and others is that I have checked this board 300 times today, when it should be 3!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lurking Hubby here. In case noone has heard of 'the formula' before...whatever # a woman gives you to this question, you should multiply by two. (especially when talking to other female friends or a husband prospect). Whatever # a man gives you, you should divide by two. (especially if talking to other males). However this only works when you are having an actual, live conversation.

This might be true if you were having a conversation with someone, but not on an anonymous message board!

Did you read the last sentence?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:300

hope you are kidding

Who gives a crap if its 3, 30 or 300? what's it got to do with you anyway? (not trying to be bitchy, but seriously - why would you care? and i'm not PP)

Ditto. I don't know how one would have the time, but if they did, who cares? Now, what SHOULD be of concern to myself and others is that I have checked this board 300 times today, when it should be 3!

I know! I feel so pathetic. I've gotten NOTHING done today. I work at home and if I had spent my slow Friday in a more productive matter, I would have the house sparkling clean, the laundry completed, dinner prepperd, and done some weeding in the garden. Soooo wasteful!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lurking Hubby here. In case noone has heard of 'the formula' before...whatever # a woman gives you to this question, you should multiply by two. (especially when talking to other female friends or a husband prospect). Whatever # a man gives you, you should divide by two. (especially if talking to other males). However this only works when you are having an actual, live conversation.

This might be true if you were having a conversation with someone, but not on an anonymous message board!

Did you read the last sentence?

I obviously didn't read all the way through, my bad.

[Anonymous]

I think around 15. I met my husband when I was 27. I feel comfortable with the number. None post marriage. . . .of course!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH is the only one and I am the only one he's been with. We met at 18 and got married at 24. Also, we did everything else, but intercourse until our wedding night.

everything including anal?

[Anonymous]

8

i was a catholic girl who waited til 18 and then only had sex with people i was in love with (except one i met my husband when i was 27.

he had a huge number (he was 35 when we met). it used to bother me, but not anymore b/c i'm the only one he wanted to marry.

[Anonymous]

Germ phobe here. 4 before marriage. Got married at age 38. Everyone was checked by blood test for HIV. Took NO chances. Condoms all the time with 3 of the 4 men. Yes one of them walked because of the condom thing, but one actually respected me more because of it. My DH had fewer partners than I did. I am happy, our kids and I are disease free. No HSV, no HPV, no HIV, no regrets.

[Anonymous]

Another high school sweet heart marriage, so just one (for both of us).