The person that can't read. (Where do I tell you what to do with your money?) |
Rankings:
1. Burning Tree 2. Congo 3. Chevy Chase 4. Kenwood Everything thing else is B list. |
Other crappy place, really? |
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Are you kidding? 1. Chevy Chase 2. Congressional 3. Columbia Everything else is the B list. And most people talking about initiation fees- other than 15:59- have no idea what they're talking about! |
Wow. I had no idea real people lived like this. Wow.
Do such country club members ever feel a teensy bit wrong for spending their money that way? |
Oh please. Do you ever feel the teensiest bit wrong about being a judgmental bitch who thinks she can tell others how to spend their money? |
Unless you are giving ALL of your disposable income to charities, the answer is no. I am sure we can find things you are spending your money on that are frivolous. I am at one of the "top 3" mentioned here and the thing I disagree with is the notion this is for social status and that members hang out for social status reasons. We belong for the golf, tennis and other amentities. My husband loves golf. He doesn't spend his money on anything else. (He has an 11 yo car). This is his thing -- which he shouldn't have to apologize for after spending 4 years in college, 4 years post graduate, and 4 years in the military. (I also spent 4 years in college; 3 years post graduate). We are not trust fund babies . . . |
We know 3 families in our n-hood who belong to Chevy (as the natives call it). All are old money -- meaning that at least one spouse comes from inherited money, though they're not rolling in it. Couple #1 are baby-boomers who grew up in other parts of the country, so they didn't inherit their membership, but I'd be willing to bet cash money that their families belonged to country clubs while they were growing up. They're pleasant, well-educated, well-traveled, not insular and moderately liberal. If asked, they'd probably say they bought into Chevy b/c that's what they grew up with and they both play golf. Couple #2 are in their 40s, and are pretty much a younger version of Couple #1, but in addition to playing golf, their kids play hockey and thus, they use the skating rink @ CCC as well as the golf course. Couple #3 are a slight variation -- husband grew up here, wife is from flyoverland and is a social-climber, name-dropper type; they're Republicans and seem to be living out some '50s fantasy right out of MadMen, Revolution Road, etc. |
This thread really solidifies why I would never belong to a country club. |
. I didn't tell anyone how to spend their money. It was an honest question. I had no idea such clubs existed. These dollar amounts are mind-boggling to me. And someone mentioned this is a Catholic/Christian club, so that's why I asked, since their religions emphasize how hard it is for the rich to live a righteous life. |
Where did you get the idea that it is a Christian club???? |
I'm not trying to be snarky, but how could you not know that there are people who live like this? There are people in this country that belong to multiple country clubs, fly on private jets, spend $10,000 on a purse and thousands on a bottle of wine, own several vacation homes, etc. The average Washington-area country club member lives quite modestly compared to many of the super rich in this country. Drive up Connecticut and peek into the parking lots of CCC and Columbia and you'll see more minivans and Volvos than luxury cars. I know many people who belong to these clubs. Most of them don't live in mansions, drive fancy cars, live lavish lives. They just happen to value what the clubs have to offer. Many of the members I know are legacies and I would venture to guess could never have afforded to join the clubs if they had to pay the full initiation fees and/or didn't have families who helped them join. I also know several upper-middle class families who are paying their initiation fee in installments and choose to join a club over taking vacations or buying a bigger house. |
Isn't CCC de facto, a Christian club? How many Muslims, Hindus, or Buddhists do you think are members? Also many Jews don't want to belong to CCC because of CCC's historical anti-semitic policies (I believe only changed in the last few decades), |
I understand your point, but how many decades do you think need to pass before people (not just those who share the Jewish faith) can get past the way it used to be? |