You’re very wrong about this. These types are likely educated, cultured and have many old money friends who still have money. |
I’m one of these. I make around $400k/year as an attorney. While I no longer have much family money, I’m not broke either. My kids go to private and we belong to a club (both of which are funded by the little family money we have left over). |
Exactly. Situations like these are not at all uncommon in "old money" enclaves all over the US, and it's actually a fairly smart way of keeping the family in some level of wealth/with important connections. And in many ways the environs they are able to access are much more exclusive/useful than any extremely expensive hotel/restaurant/normal place that someone with a lot of cash can buy access to. |
Does that put the person you’re asking in an uncomfortable position? What if they have concerns that you don’t know enough other people to get in? |
And none of them are attending the Chevy Chase Club or even living in Chevy Chase, lol. Your experience with the trailer park denizens you grew up around is more a reflection of your own background/lack of class awareness and not relevant to this particular conversation. It's very far above your station |
You can only join if you’ve lived in this area for like 20 years. |
It's not very nice. You would do better to join Congressional at this point. But good luck, it's already well into March. |
What does that matter? |
Martha Stewart and Congressional agree; your beds should already be planted by now. You missed the window. |
If you’ve got the money and this is your thing, go for it. I hope you got some useful information here.
I grew up going to the finest CCs in different locations. This was at a time when expense accounts were a free for all and booze and unhealthy eating was the norm. The members were typically all very insecure immature grown up boys. It’s different now. CC life is family oriented with many activities set up for families. The only drawback I see is that you see the same people over and over again. Just like most of the DC area it’s about status and networking with a side of a dried out burger on a stale bun with the kids. |
Is this true? |
No. |
Yes. You can’t ask you have to wait for them to offer. |
Wouldn't you be so much wealthier, and your kids ultimately be better off, if you stopped the club membership and sent your kids to public? I'm a first-gen American making good money (low to mid 7s), but would never join a CC or send my kids to private as I'm trying to build wealth. My kids are thriving and happy in public schools and the local swim club is great. |
And PP’s kids will grow up with different network. Not saying better or worse but just different. |