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I think that the idea. That kids doing research is unfair is absurd, but the problem is that any activity where an adult has a lot of power over a kid and a lot of alone time with the kid needs to be closely supervised.
The adults in those situations just have too much of a chance to be rotten. |
You aren’t bright enough to step in. Please stay on the sidelines of the conversation. |
Some posters on this board refuse to put themselves in other people’s schools. Very smart low income kids still have huge hurdles to climb to be able to participate in these research, internship, programs. Smart females sometimes even have to fight their own parents to achieve their dreams. The playing field is not equal. |
I’m sorry you’re too dumb to understand that my kids have advantages because I planned it that way, just as my parents made those plans for me. |
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Two facts remain:
1. Private schools are for profits and they choose students based on their own criteria. 2. Fairness is not something parents define |
That is fabulous for you and your kids. Congratulations! You get a cookie. I also think that your kid’s research position should not bear more weight in the application process than the kid that worked 30 hours a week at Wendy’s during the school year. |
Why do things have to be “equitable “ according to your definition? It was your choice not to raise your kids in a certain way and now you’re complaining it’s not “equitable “? Do you not understand families who could do this also have to cross a lot of hurdles and make a lot of sacrifices? Nobody but yourself is responsible for raising your own kids. Cry me a river. |
| People, please kindly use condoms if you don’t want to raise your kids properly. I know you’re gonna complain you can’t afford condoms. But obviously you can afford $500 shinny shoes and $300 coffee every month. |
Unfortunately, even working at a Wendy's and the likes can be gamed, unless it's a near-year-round commitment of 8 to 10 hours per week for 3 to 4 years. That is a lot harder to fake. My DD did that (1000+ hours total, only because she just loved having her own money to spend) and did zero research and got into a t10 (while being rejected/waitlisted by a bunch of t20s). I like to think that her job made up for her lack of research experience. |
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Does it? |
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My friend’s kid who worked at a grocery store got into a few T20s and attended T10. He did other stuff too (no research) but that was his biggest time commitment outside of school.
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Go F yourself |
Just ignore the MAGA a-holes. They think their kids are entitled to everything. |
I wish you fk’ed yourself so you didn’t bring innocent kids that you didn’t deserve into this world. |