Husband pressuring me for a third child

[Anonymous]

3 kids is way too many. 2 is perfect. Former nanny here, with 2 kids of my own. The 3 child families had unhappy mothers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:3 kids is way too many. 2 is perfect. Former nanny here, with 2 kids of my own. The 3 child families had unhappy mothers.

OP- thanks so much for everyone's input. It's a hard no for me and I will enforce that. He will just have to live with it. Im already drowning with two kids.

[Anonymous]

I think you should have a third. You can hire out some help. Really once you have 2 children, adding more did not affect anything. I ended up having 5 (set of twins and 3 singletons).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you should have a third. You can hire out some help. Really once you have 2 children, adding more did not affect anything. I ended up having 5 (set of twins and 3 singletons).

Were you the one who wanted the litter of kids or did DH talk you into it?

[Anonymous]

Mine wanted a third too. Instead he got a vasectomy and a cat. Lol! No way! I told him it is my way or the highway. A month of separate bedrooms and he made that urology appointment.