do people still use condoms?

Anonymous
No they don't. I am recently divorced and I was frankly surprised by this.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No they don't. I am recently divorced and I was frankly surprised by this.


People with brains definitely still use them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's not about the time to put one on, it's the feeling. In my 40s, I can only keep it up if it's with a new person. After 2-3x, the lack of feeling will cause ED. I've had a vasectomy so we just get tested and all good to proceed.


I wouldn’t go without condoms even after testing. Most people don’t date monogamously and there could be hidden STDs (HPV ) that may pop up in 6-12 months.

I always wait for a few months with a new partner and until I feel it may become a serious relationship.

Men like the PP should medicate their ED instead of making multiple women they c.m dumps


why not? Women are letting them do it so why should PP has to worry about it? He is at the same risk of carrying diseases as she is.
Anonymous
I am 44F and don't use condoms. We get tested or get the vibe if a person looks trustworthy and never had an issue. I also do anal w/o condoms. No fund with it.
Anonymous
Only if they don’t want an STI—including AIDS!

You questions is either naive or ignorant—viruses and bacteria will always be with us.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My husband refuses to get a vasectomy (which he said he would do 17 years ago) so we're using them. I'm 52, still getting periods, and done with having the burden on me. So it's condoms or abstinence.

So unfair. Using condoms is soul sucking


Oh grow up.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH here, married 20 years. Vasectomy years ago. It's hard to imagine using a condom, it has been so long. I recall how awkward they were.


They’re still awkward but I always use one with anyone but DW. Safety first!


Finally a decent scumbag


Right?

How about honoring marriage vows first?

I really wish we still used the scarlet letter system.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am 44F and don't use condoms. We get tested or get the vibe if a person looks trustworthy and never had an issue. I also do anal w/o condoms. No fund with it.


“looks trustworthy” You are next level stupid.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No they don't. I am recently divorced and I was frankly surprised by this.


People with brains definitely still use them.

How about focusing on morals instead of brains?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 44F and don't use condoms. We get tested or get the vibe if a person looks trustworthy and never had an issue. I also do anal w/o condoms. No fund with it.


“looks trustworthy” You are next level stupid.


Majority of men wouldn't want to become exclusive outright. Or they would lie and continue dating others while sleeping without condoms (just to avoid condoms). This 44yo F is just placing herself and all other potential partners at risk
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am 44F and don't use condoms. We get tested or get the vibe if a person looks trustworthy and never had an issue. I also do anal w/o condoms. No fund with it.


The whole reason STIs spread is due to people assuming themselves and others don’t have them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No they don't. I am recently divorced and I was frankly surprised by this.


People with brains definitely still use them.

How about focusing on morals instead of brains?


Because choosing to wear a condom has nothing to do with morals. Sure, if you know you have something that can spread without one then I guess you could call it a moral issue but it really just comes down to understanding how stupid it is to take the risk versus not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am 44F and don't use condoms. We get tested or get the vibe if a person looks trustworthy and never had an issue. I also do anal w/o condoms. No fund with it.


“Fund”?
Anonymous
DH and I use them because I don’t want to be on BC. And less clean up. He doesn’t mind / has no trouble staying hard / says it’s as enjoyable as without. The only time in our relationship we didn’t use them is when we were trying for our kids.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DH and I use them because I don’t want to be on BC. And less clean up. He doesn’t mind / has no trouble staying hard / says it’s as enjoyable as without. The only time in our relationship we didn’t use them is when we were trying for our kids.


Same, he actually prefers using one
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