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| No they don't. I am recently divorced and I was frankly surprised by this. |
People with brains definitely still use them. |
why not? Women are letting them do it so why should PP has to worry about it? He is at the same risk of carrying diseases as she is. |
| I am 44F and don't use condoms. We get tested or get the vibe if a person looks trustworthy and never had an issue. I also do anal w/o condoms. No fund with it. |
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Only if they don’t want an STI—including AIDS!
You questions is either naive or ignorant—viruses and bacteria will always be with us. |
Oh grow up. |
Right? How about honoring marriage vows first? I really wish we still used the scarlet letter system. |
“looks trustworthy” You are next level stupid. |
How about focusing on morals instead of brains? |
Majority of men wouldn't want to become exclusive outright. Or they would lie and continue dating others while sleeping without condoms (just to avoid condoms). This 44yo F is just placing herself and all other potential partners at risk |
The whole reason STIs spread is due to people assuming themselves and others don’t have them. |
Because choosing to wear a condom has nothing to do with morals. Sure, if you know you have something that can spread without one then I guess you could call it a moral issue but it really just comes down to understanding how stupid it is to take the risk versus not. |
“Fund”? |
| DH and I use them because I don’t want to be on BC. And less clean up. He doesn’t mind / has no trouble staying hard / says it’s as enjoyable as without. The only time in our relationship we didn’t use them is when we were trying for our kids. |
Same, he actually prefers using one |