do people still use condoms?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I stopped taking BC (tired of the hormonal effects, 40yo so at risk for blood clots) and insist men wear condoms.

They fall into 3 camps:

1. Have condoms, happy to wear them.

2. Don't want to wear them so will "forget" them the first several times you hook up until they realize you aren't budging.

3. Hate condoms and can't stay hard with them.

Unfortunately right now I'm dating a #3. I thought he would get better, but nothing. We have PIV maybe once a month and it doesn't last long. He's constantly saying how he wishes he didn't have to use one, which puts a lot of pressure on me, but I'm not budging.

I’m similar to him but my partners allowed me to go bareback in the “other” place.

i wouldn't think #3 would be a thing since sensation is less with condoms. maybe with out the condom the explosion will happen instantaneously, and if that's the case, why bother?

That part is true but the partners I’ve had really enjoyed those two minutes

This is really scary that multiple women allow anal sex without protection and he’s obviously doing it in non exclusive poly relationships.
I stopped allowing oral when dating when I realized how slutty men behaved on OLD from this forum.
So no oral or anal just PIV with condoms until it’s an exclusive relationship where I feel very safe

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I stopped taking BC (tired of the hormonal effects, 40yo so at risk for blood clots) and insist men wear condoms.

They fall into 3 camps:

1. Have condoms, happy to wear them.

2. Don't want to wear them so will "forget" them the first several times you hook up until they realize you aren't budging.

3. Hate condoms and can't stay hard with them.

Unfortunately right now I'm dating a #3. I thought he would get better, but nothing. We have PIV maybe once a month and it doesn't last long. He's constantly saying how he wishes he didn't have to use one, which puts a lot of pressure on me, but I'm not budging.

I’m similar to him but my partners allowed me to go bareback in the “other” place.

Is using this other place common? Asking for a friend.

With the three of the partners I did this with, each time it started out as a method of birth control because I cant stand condoms. All three became hooked and it became mutually enjoyable. I didn’t marry any of them and my wife isn’t into it (but had fertility issues so not wearing a condom wasn’t an issue).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH here, married 20 years. Vasectomy years ago. It's hard to imagine using a condom, it has been so long. I recall how awkward they were.

Do couples dating and having sex still use them or are other forms of birth control more common these days?

HPV shots, HPRep, and Plan B are where it’s at!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here, married 20 years. Vasectomy years ago. It's hard to imagine using a condom, it has been so long. I recall how awkward they were.

Do couples dating and having sex still use them or are other forms of birth control more common these days?

HPV shots, HPRep, and Plan B are where it’s at!

What’s HPRep ?

[Anonymous]

Why are people on this forum so concerned about stds when Stds are no big deal compared to the consequences people will face on the day of judgement. Folks please repent and get married

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband refuses to get a vasectomy (which he said he would do 17 years ago) so we're using them. I'm 52, still getting periods, and done with having the burden on me. So it's condoms or abstinence.

So unfair. Using condoms is soul sucking

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I stopped taking BC (tired of the hormonal effects, 40yo so at risk for blood clots) and insist men wear condoms.

They fall into 3 camps:

1. Have condoms, happy to wear them.

2. Don't want to wear them so will "forget" them the first several times you hook up until they realize you aren't budging.

3. Hate condoms and can't stay hard with them.

Unfortunately right now I'm dating a #3. I thought he would get better, but nothing. We have PIV maybe once a month and it doesn't last long. He's constantly saying how he wishes he didn't have to use one, which puts a lot of pressure on me, but I'm not budging.

I’m similar to him but my partners allowed me to go bareback in the “other” place.

i wouldn't think #3 would be a thing since sensation is less with condoms. maybe with out the condom the explosion will happen instantaneously, and if that's the case, why bother?

That part is true but the partners I’ve had really enjoyed those two minutes

This is really scary that multiple women allow anal sex without protection and he’s obviously doing it in non exclusive poly relationships.
I stopped allowing oral when dating when I realized how slutty men behaved on OLD from this forum.
So no oral or anal just PIV with condoms until it’s an exclusive relationship where I feel very safe

You sound like a real party.

[Anonymous]

When the sex is so-so, I sometimes prefer no condom. Otherwise, the ending can be anticlimactic. When the sex is fantastic, most women prefer no condom. I have been surprised.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here, married 20 years. Vasectomy years ago. It's hard to imagine using a condom, it has been so long. I recall how awkward they were.

Do couples dating and having sex still use them or are other forms of birth control more common these days?

HPV shots, HPRep, and Plan B are where it’s at!

What’s HPRep ?

ask the anal peeps

[Anonymous]

HIV PrEp or PrEP or HPrep. They teach it in sex ed now at the private progressive high schools.
Sex in every orifice, the risks, and the drugs & shots out there.

Enjoy!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here, married 20 years. Vasectomy years ago. It's hard to imagine using a condom, it has been so long. I recall how awkward they were.

Do couples dating and having sex still use them or are other forms of birth control more common these days?

HPV shots, HPRep, and Plan B are where it’s at!

Excellent. Your kids are well covered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are people on this forum so concerned about stds when Stds are no big deal compared to the consequences people will face on the day of judgement. Folks please repent and get married

Why do you show up all the time and everywhere? Seriously, do us all a favor and F@k off.

[Anonymous]

My BF doesn’t like them but I’ve found that a good BJ first and me putting it on him eases his suffering.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are people on this forum so concerned about stds when Stds are no big deal compared to the consequences people will face on the day of judgement. Folks please repent and get married

Why do you show up all the time and everywhere? Seriously, do us all a favor and F@k off.

To inject some rationality. Seriously why are people so worried about stds when there will be much more bigger issues to be worried about on the day of judgement?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband refuses to get a vasectomy (which he said he would do 17 years ago) so we're using them. I'm 52, still getting periods, and done with having the burden on me. So it's condoms or abstinence.

Let him in door #2