What is this non sequitur post? In the first place you are flat out wrong. |
|
140K can be rich in DC depending on your situation.
For example my kid lives in a rent controlled apt in Adam Morgan. The women who is on site manager has two kids and is married. She does the apt showings, makes sure work is done by porter and staff. But the building is old and runs like clockwork so not really a full time job. Just has to be around for stuff like when an apt is is free to be shown and check work is actually done. She does it for free and in return she gets a free two bedroom apartment, utilities and parking included. Kids school is up the block she walks them to and from school. If her husband made 140K she be in my opinion rich. A dual income couple both in the office with childcare and a mortgage at 140K would be poor. |
Bethesda has not been affordable since 1998 for middle class. In 1999-2001 Mortgages rates were sky high and by time started falling in late 2001 the housing buble started. |
but that cant be done today as easy. Like me telling my kids when I was married my wife moved into my one bedroom coop I bought in a foreclosure sale in 1991 that only cost me after tax break $550 a month so we could save up for a downpayment very quickly. I then got starter home for cheap and them sold double and bought my big house. Wow they say gramps really? |
That is exactly his point. In his article, he says the poverty line for a dual-income couple with 2 kids who need childcare and a mortgage. This is pasted from his article: "Using conservative, national-average data: Childcare: $32,773 Housing: $23,267 Food: $14,717 Transportation: $14,828 Healthcare: $10,567 Other essentials: $21,857 Required net income: $118,009 Add federal, state, and FICA taxes of roughly $18,500, and you arrive at a required gross income of $136,500." |
You think retirees pulling $120K - $200K in income from their retirement accounts are going to be in poverty? Retirees who mostly also have social security to fund essentials and medicare to fund healthcare? |
No, because they no longer have dependent children and shouldn't have a mortgage. His article about the poverty line applies to a family of 4 with two dependent children and two working parents, not 2 retirees with no dependent children. |
| What? We (fam of 4) live outside of DC and our HHI is 160. We have no debt other than mortgage, own two Subarus, never feel stretched too thin to buy any expensive groceries or toys or kitchen gadgets we might want or need, and travel to Europe every summer. I highly doubt that we are just barely over the poverty line. |
How'd you get to that point? Did you make and save money for cars and a home down payment before kids? Do you still need full-time child care? I thought his numbers for childcare, housing, food, transportation, healthcare, and other essentials were spot on for our family of 4. We spend more than $140,000 to live what most people would describe as a prudent lifestyle, because, in addition to the costs he listed in his article, we also travel, save for college, save for retirement, and let our kids participate in local activities. We live what most would consider a prudent middle-class lifestyle on a budget of $220k: we drive cars like Subarus, home is not fancy, kids go to public school, we mainly hit Costco for food and essentials, and we take one trip a year, usually domestic. Any less than that, we'd have to give up saving for college or retirement, or taking one trip a year. |
Schools don't teach critical thinking anymore, unfortunately. |
Live outside of DC as in the suburbs, or outside the DC area? When did you buy your house? Because this is a key difference - even the lower priced DC suburbs are prohibitively expensive, unless you bought a lower priced house or townhouse when rates were very low and are paying $2000 a month for housing. |
+1 With a SAHP your daycare costs are zero. That is saving $12-15K+/year for each kid you have most likely |
Infant daycare is 500 per week minimum. 2 years. Then MAYBE goes down to 350-400/week but the prices keep rising so you end up paying the same tuition you were paying for an infant for a 4 year old. Its fu3k5ry. |
That’s not poverty. That’s living an honest life with two cars and an apartment with healthcare and food. Trips to Va wine country and Major cities are cheap ways to have ‘vacations’ like camping. Amazing that poverty is now considered having all those things. |
100%. This thread was shocking to read. Since when is summer camp or expensive kid activities an essential? People look at how the UMC lives and assumes that means the MC gets those things too and if not, that means they’re poverty level. |