How does KL’s playing style differ from last year’s coach? I understand difference in sideline behavior, but what’s different on the pitch? |
From my perspective, KL tells them what to do constantly and his way is the only way. It becomes predictable and good team figure them out quickly (even the not so good ones). When mistakes are made a verbal lashing is coming, thus creating fear and little to no decision making on their own. The other coach allowed them to play and “to figure it out”. This empowered them to make decisions. They may have not made the right decision but it was “their” decision to make. A teachable moment where the player learns through her decisions not from being constantly told what to do. At the end of the day, it’s “their” (players) game. The other coach was not perfect, no doubt but you can’t say that he didn’t allow them to play. A there was a more team like and happier atmosphere and they all cared about one another. |
This is right on KL. Good coach but it’s his way or the highway. |
Short version is if you're playing up, the league you're in matters a lot. It's not a good experience if you're dominating every game playing up, but it can be a lot better than playing same-age because the quality of teams in the pre-MLS/ECNL/GA leagues varies so much at u12. Longer version is my DC's team played up a year for the last few seasons and there's been some good and some bad. Playing at our age group was a mixed bag because there were 2-3 close games and the rest were blowouts. Playing up the first two years was almost worse because almost all the games were blowout. As other said, we were playing second or third teams who were bigger but not better. Not sure our kids got better from playing up. Then last year when they were a u12 team, they played up in u13 league and that was shockingly the best experience. The top u13 teams were off to MLS/ECNL/GA/etc, but the teams we played were either other top u12 teams or top teams whose clubs don't have an option for MLS/etc. The teams they played against were generally similarly skilled as our team but bigger and faster which forced our kids to play smarter. Then we'd go back to playing our normal u12 league and it a lot less fun (same as before where only 2-3 games are competitive and rest aren't). We played in some tournaments against other u12 teams that hadn't played up and you could see the difference. Our team had to fight every single u13 game whereas the other teams were only used to competing in a handful of games each season. Looking at this year, I'm not going to say it was life changing and we're suddenly far ahead of the other teams, but playing up was the highlight of last year from a team development perspective. |
And how many girls fell out of love for the game and quit because of this? a shame. |
I wish my DD’s coach would give his players some direction and let then know when they made the right or wrong decision more often. It’s a team sport where players have specific responsibilities and they’re not going to learn what they should and should not do by osmosis. |
You don't think they know? They know their responsibilities and they know when they make a mistake. You don't think her coach speaks to her when she comes off or asks her questions? Highlighting it and putting a spotlight on them does not help and further destroys their self image and makes them less likely to make another decision on her own. You have a lot to learn about girls soccer and how girls view the game. But as long as the girls does what she is told thats ok by you. |
I honestly don't know why ANY of the 2014 E2 players would stay. KL and most Bethesda ECNL coaches are known for never promoting from within the club. A bunch of those girls are more than capable of being E1, and have been in the past, but KL will never bring them up. If he puts you on E2, he sees you as E2 long-term, and he only cares about the top teams. Period. I would be shocked if there was not an exodus. |
I could not agree with you more! Fake promises, "bubble" players, etc. |
But where else can someone who lives in MC and wants to play at a high level U13 or above go other than BSC, unless they have parents willing and able to drive 90 minutes twice a day? |
That’s the heart of the problem. You’re going to have to make the drive, and that stinks. But we know plenty of people who do it, often with carpooling. Unless girls are willing (and able, because the commute isn’t easy) to drive elsewhere, BSC has no incentive to change and they know it. |
Lol |
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you said carpooling. They are going to come For you. First rule of carpooling, dont talk about carpooling. |
Exactly this, I wish my kid's coaches gave them better feedback/direction. Assuming a 10/11 year old can constantly figure out what they are doing wrong and pivot without coach direction is folly. |