How early into dating do men expect sex?

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Exactly. I do not care a whit when they 'expect' it.

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

And maybe she was okay with it. Doesn't mean he gets to impose that on another woman.
The issue is him.
You also don't seem to understand that having an education or a fancy job doesn't make a guy respects me or have good character. Poor character and entitlement comes at any career level and abusive and entitled men often have high powered jobs
You really need to rethink how you evaluate someone's character.
You also need to unlearn your misogyny. Women are not responsible for training men or their bad behavior.
That individual man is responsible for his actions.period.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

And maybe she was okay with it. Doesn't mean he gets to impose that on another woman.
The issue is him.
You also don't seem to understand that having an education or a fancy job doesn't make a guy respects me or have good character. Poor character and entitlement comes at any career level and abusive and entitled men often have high powered jobs
You really need to rethink how you evaluate someone's character.
You also need to unlearn your misogyny. Women are not responsible for training men or their bad behavior.
That individual man is responsible for his actions.period.

Women are not responsible for training them but lots of women lack self respect.
I chose not to train him but me simply getting dressed and leaving him without finishing the act was triggering enough, so he’s unlikely to repeat it. We also had a lengthy conversation after how he would feel if some man did this to his daughter.

I’ve met normal men, too, so my picker is fine. A poor policeman, a teacher or an army sergeant is just as likely or even more likely to be sexual predator.

Generally people who invest time in education are also more educated in sex and treat women better.

You have no clue how construction workers treat their wives and GFs - I do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

What’s wrong with traditional gender roles when it comes to sex?
Do you want to change all traditional roles?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you think? Think it varies.

I’m a man and I expect sex on the second date.

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I don't know how men operate. But as a woman if I want a man he'll know. As soon as I do.

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Anonymous wrote:What do you think? Think it varies.

I’m a man and I expect sex on the second date.

Wanting doesn’t hurt…

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

How can you expect them to respect u while u r committing adultry with them ?

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

How can you expect them to respect u while u r committing adultry with them ?

Adultery ? Do you read - I said exGF ; exW

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

How can you expect them to respect u while u r committing adultry with them ?

Adultery ? Do you read - I said exGF ; exW

Correction: how do you expect respect from them while fornicating with them?

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Anonymous wrote:Very interesting to see how many people still cling to traditional gender roles when it comes to sex.

Men "expect" sex and woman "put out" I guess?

Could we ask "How early into dating do women expect sex?" Every man would presumably jump when it's offered?

Women are more exposed to STDs, pregnancy , and emotional risks if he crosses boundaries. I had men try to insert D in my mouth by pushing my head down; try to insert fingers in my butt; stealth me (without any prior discussion. ). These were not trashy men - all so called “high value”. Since women are the party carrying here most risks, genders truly are not equal in attitudes and risks engaging in sex.
Women can mitigate these risks by only engaging with known partners who care for them

Umm they were trashy men who assaulted you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

That said there is no number of dates that allows you to mitigate the risk of abusive (or just bad) sex. There are ways to tell by testing the waters.

Trust me these were surprisingly normal looking, highly educated and reputable men. All had long term prior marriages; and GFs who stayed with them for a least a year. I was shocked myself to find out so many women are tolerating this behavior to the point of the men thinking it’s normal.

They were tras

They were trashy men. The things you listed doesn't make a man non trashy. And don't blame the women for the mens behavior

One of them said his ex GF never complained at anything and that I was a nag for telling him he should ask me first before placing fingers in my butt. A founder of a large NASA program and a CEO of a large company presently

How can you expect them to respect u while u r committing adultry with them ?

Adultery ? Do you read - I said exGF ; exW

Correction: how do you expect respect from them while fornicating with them?

Ah, no sex before marriage wacko again.